Everyone I knows breaks up.
My mom got divorced. My aunt got divorced. My uncle got divorced. My grandfather died when I was young so I didn't really see my grandma with anyone. My other grandma's husband died years before I was born so I never knew her with anyone. My sister had lots of boyfriends but not around me. As I assume the same with my cousin. One of my other cousins just broke up with his long-time girlfriend (and fiancee, I can't remember). All my friends have had unhealthy relationships.
I've never seen a long healthy relationship. So how can I have faith in them?
How can I possibly send two friends off happily in marriage when I've seen them fight, time and time again?
It might be fighting over stupid things but in my experience, fights over little things turn into fights over bigger things and in the end, end badly.
The relationships I have hope in, a week later breakup. Like HOW?
How can you spent an intimate part of your life with someone and then just stop.
Like I can kinda get it with a friendship, heck I've broken up friendships like that *snap*, (that was a finger snap if you were confused, you get the expression), but a relationship it doesn't seem like you have the same walls up so how does that work?
I get crushed when people stop being my friend, so I guess I'd get really crushed by a relationship.
But I don't understand it. How do you just stop caring for someone? Or did you ever really?
