Katie and Sean,

I know I see you every day and could probably say this to you in person, but you both know I like to write because I can get my point across more effectively. I wanted to take some time before you turn 15 to write something specifically to you—each of you as individuals.

Katie, you are priceless. You hold so much more value in others' lives than you realize, and you are worth so much more than you think. Other people need you in their lives, likely more than they will tell you. Your friends need your quirks, your laugh, your positivity, your humor, and your warm presence. Anyone who cannot value you for those things is not meant to stay in your life for long. You are worth the moon, the stars, and everything beyond; there is not a single person in this world who should ever lead you to believe otherwise. Life can be difficult, but you will pull through it because you are strong and smart. People can be stupid and irritating, but the people who are meant to be in your life won’t be any of those things. Be yourself around people because that is the person whom people will appreciate, love, and respect. The people and things meant to stay in your life will be easy to keep around—remember that. You have experienced plenty of situations you did not think you would survive, but you’re still here because you can survive anything. Believe in yourself. The world is yours.

Sean, you are infinite. Never let other people drag you down or kill your vibe. Be who you are and the world will adjust. Keep your humor, your empathy, and your wit—they will continue to serve you well. Life can be frustrating, especially as you get older, but having a good sense of humor and people who can help you to destress will make all the difference. Take the time to appreciate what and who you have because life won’t always be this way. Every step you take is leading you toward your future self, and I have full confidence that person will be as incredible as we think he will be. You are smart, confident, funny, and compassionate, and these are positive qualities to carry with you for the rest of your life. The people around you now and those who will be around you in the future should appreciate you for the person you truly are; if they can’t, they aren’t worth your energy. Learning to properly handle the things you can control and not to stress about the things you can’t will help you to achieve more in life because you won’t be holding yourself back. Take a deep breath, take in the world around you, and see the love around you. You can do anything you set your mind to, so do it. The world is yours.

Katie and Sean, I love you, and I can’t wait to see what you accomplish in your lives. Happy birthday!

Love,

Your Big Sister Emilie