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Broken Yet Mended

Dear You

Breanna Ausby

Sep 06, 2016

North Carolina Central University

Dear You,

There comes a time in our lives when we find ourselves so broken that we begin to believe that no one could ever repair us. We all will go through one situation or another that will change our lives forever. We may all find ourselves at a point trying to understand how we made it to this place of brokenness and how we will make it out.

Here is the thing. As we find ourselves in the place of brokenness there is quite a few things we could do. We could sulk and believe that nothing will ever get better, we could believe things can get better and then do nothing to rebuild or put the broken piece back together again, or we could do everything we can possibly do to rebuild our lives and glue our broken piece back together again.

Sulking will nine times out of ten get you nowhere. Why sit around and feel sorry for yourself instead of trying to find a way to make yourself feel better? Get up and find a way to rebuild, unless you just want to be broken for the rest of your life.

Believe that there is a way to rebuild yourself. However, faith without works is dead so if you believe that things will get better but you do not make the moves to piece together the broken pieces of your life how will anything change?

Rebuild your life! It is not going to be easy but nothing worth having is ever easy to get. Work for it, believe in yourself, and watch your broken places be restored.

Many may remember the nursery rhyme Humpty Dumpty, where he sat on a wall and fell off and nobody could put him back together again. When I think about Humpty Dumpty and how he fell off the wall I now find myself at the age of 22 trying to understand how Humpty got on top of the wall to begin with, and why he believed that sitting up there was even a good idea. Then I realize how similar we are to Humpty. We get ourselves into these situations that fail and then when we end up broken we expect help to be put back together. So when you find yourself in certain situations please ask yourself if you want to be like Humpty Dumpty or if you want to maintain your wholeness.

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All names should be "unisex names."

1. Communicating via email can be awkward.

2. Appointments usually accompany weird looks.

3. Introducing yourself to someone is never without a hitch.

4. You’ve probably thought about changing your name.

5. You’re often asked why you have the name you do.

6. You get excited when you meet someone of your gender with your name.

7. You feel awkward when you meet someone of the opposite gender with your name.

8. You’ve had someone say to you, “I knew a [your name], but they were [your opposite gender].”

9. You’ve heard a bad joke/pick-up line or two about your name before.

10. People are surprised when they see you.

11. You’re extra sensitive to other unique or unisex names.

12. You’ve fought with your parents about it.

13. All things considered, you’re happy your name makes you unique.

You know that all of these things apply to you. You'll just never tell.

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1. At least I can't lose you in a crowd!

2. Oh my goodness your skin is like glow-in-the-dark.

3. Can't you just get fake tan?

4. Do you tan or just burn?

5. Your kids are going to look like Casper the Friendly Ghost!

6. *holds arm against your arm* Look how much darker I am compared to you!

7. *holds pale arm against another pale arm* Aw, at least you're darker than her!

8. I laid out by the pool almost every day over break!

9. I haven't used sunscreen since I was, like, five.

10. *adjusts selfie lighting to their face* Oops, where'd you go??

11. *after working out* Your face is SO red!

12. *wears white* Look! You're all one color!

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6. holds arm against your arm Look how much darker I am compared to you!

7. holds pale arm against another pale arm Aw, at least you're darker than her!

10. adjusts selfie lighting to their face Oops, where'd you go??

11. after working out Your face is SO red!

12. wears white Look! You're all one color!