4 Things You Need To Make Sure Are In Your 2015 Dating Checklist | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Politics and Activism

4 Things You Need To Make Sure Are In Your 2015 Dating Checklist

You don't have to be a prince, but there are some things that are non-negotiable.

3
4 Things You Need To Make Sure Are In Your 2015 Dating Checklist

It's 2015, and standard relationship expectations are constantly changing. However, based on basic social cues, my own personal experience and witnessing my friends' plummeted relationships, I've compiled a list of the simple requirements that, apparently, must now be made very clear to ensure that a guy is dating material according to our generation's current standards.


1. Respects women.

Seems like a no-brainer, right? Sadly, you would be surprised. If the word feminism makes him run faster than Forrest Gump, you've got the right idea by running in the opposite direction. Of course, no one is asking these potential significant others to be radical activists, but at the same time if they're idolizing Donald Trump's view on women and have ever retweeted the misogynistic Twitter account, "Meninist," then they've got some growing up to do. There is nothing wrong with that, but no one ever said you have to play the part of Mom.


2. Contrary to popular belief, if you want to be my lover, please do not get with my friends.

Maybe the Spice Girls had their own agreement as far as relationships, but that is not how it works. I've never been the detective type in relationships, but if you're creepin' around with any of my friends, or even my friends' friends, it doesn't take Sherlock to figure it out.


3. You should never rank lower than cheap beer and booze on the pyramid of priorities.

I'm not saying you should be that nagging type that always whines about staying in for some, "Netflix and chill," as opposed to partying with friends, but if a guy starts to be in a more exclusive relationship with Natty Light or $5 gin, you may want to reconsider your choices. But, hey, they'll figure that out eventually once the beer gut shows up and you already walked out the door.


4. You should always be taken seriously.

Coming from an overly animated goof like myself, I never take too many things that seriously.

But, if your significant other doesn't take any serious interest in your passions, goals or even simple hobbies, your interest in them should diminish as well. I've realized how important it is to have a genuine interest in another's activities, other than partying and going on dates together. That's where you'll find real support for each other; so I've heard.


Seeking a significant other doesn't have to be an audition process, but there are some qualities you just can't ignore.

You're not being picky, you just have to maintain that Aretha Franklin mentality, and seek some good ol' fashioned R-E-S-P-E-C-T.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
campus
CampusExplorer

New year, new semester, not the same old thing. This semester will be a semester to redeem all the mistakes made in the previous five months.

1. I will wake up (sorta) on time for class.

Let's face it, last semester you woke up with enough time to brush your teeth and get to class and even then you were about 10 minutes late and rollin' in with some pretty unfortunate bed head. This semester we will set our alarms, wake up with time to get ready, and get to class on time!

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

The 5 Painfully True Stages Of Camping Out At The Library

For those long nights that turn into mornings when the struggle is real.

1400
woman reading a book while sitting on black leather 3-seat couch
Photo by Seven Shooter on Unsplash

And so it begins.

1. Walk in motivated and ready to rock

Camping out at the library is not for the faint of heart. You need to go in as a warrior. You usually have brought supplies (laptop, chargers, and textbooks) and sustenance (water, snacks, and blanket/sweatpants) since the battle will be for an undetermined length of time. Perhaps it is one assignment or perhaps it's four. You are motivated and prepared; you don’t doubt the assignment(s) will take time, but you know it couldn’t be that long.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

The 14 Stages Of The Last Week Of Class

You need sleep, but also have 13 things due in the span of 4 days.

943
black marker on notebook

December... it's full of finals, due dates, Mariah Carey, and the holidays. It's the worst time of the year, but the best because after finals, you get to not think about classes for a month and catch up on all the sleep you lost throughout the semester. But what's worse than finals week is the last week of classes, when all the due dates you've put off can no longer be put off anymore.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Top 20 Thoughts College Students Have During Finals

The ultimate list and gif guide to a college student's brain during finals.

192
winter

Thanksgiving break is over and Christmas is just around the corner and that means, for most college students, one hellish thing — finals week. It's the one time of year in which the library becomes over populated and mental breakdowns are most frequent. There is no way to avoid it or a cure for the pain that it brings. All we can do is hunker down with our books, order some Dominos, and pray that it will all be over soon. Luckily, we are not alone in this suffering. To prove it, here are just a few of the many deranged thoughts that go through a college student's mind during finals week.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

28 Daily Thoughts of College Students

"I want to thank Google, Wikipedia, and whoever else invented copy and paste. Thank you."

1588
group of people sitting on bench near trees duting daytime

I know every college student has daily thoughts throughout their day. Whether you're walking on campus or attending class, we always have thoughts running a mile a minute through our heads. We may be wondering why we even showed up to class because we'd rather be sleeping, or when the professor announces that we have a test and you have an immediate panic attack.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments