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Breakups Forever?
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Relationships come and go. Especially when it comes to long lasting ones. Sometimes there needs to be a little distance between those that love one another, but when words crowd and there is a lingering feeling of suffocation, the result can end up as breakups. There is the old age thing of trying and trying till you get it right, but that may not be the case.

Love always remains even with all the fights and violent episodes. Making believe that there is hope is not at all farfetched. It can be an adoring feeling because love in relationships is there for a reason. When love is lost can it be found again? Many times, we see ourselves as forgiving machines always wanting to think twice and to give second chances. It takes a lot of strength and willpower to decide for yourself, but life holds something on us all.

Everything will not be fixed with a sweet disposition and soft voice, it takes a lot of decisions and rightful opinions. There are opportunities to talk. When the conversation Is going, many can fear the outcome or might enjoy it. It depends on the person. Therefore, if breakups last forever is it possible to end it under friendly terms? There are divorces that end amicably but how about relationships that are stripped from the bonds of matrimony? Love isn’t ignorant. Love can test anyone’s boundary. Loving relationships always start innocently. You can stare into the eyes of the one you love and create this simple bubble around you both that doesn’t let others in. The world is always yours and the one you love.

You both share a kiss and a smile. The deal with breakups is that it doesn’t stop a person from caring about the ones they once loved. Even if it results in a sisterly or brotherly affection for each other. Being friends can never make everything be the same again, but love will peak through and the secret of long lasting friendships are born.

Caring for another or feeling empathy can never be turned around. The whole situation between lovers is a curious one. Nevertheless, it can be that the people in the eye of the storm do not want to take the good with the bad, and break ups no matter what can never end love. Maybe trust, but never love.

However, what's love without trust? It never disappears. You can shake it off but it never disappears or ruins everything. Loved ones might interfere but they always teach you something. It is wise to listen. So, if breakups are forever, life will never be the same for anyone. People are generally romantic and they want to believe in second chances. Taking it easy and understanding each other will help. It pays to listen and to prepare for suffering after happiness. Break-ups can happen to anyone and can affect many in different ways.

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