So it has been a rough couple of weeks here at the University of Richmond.

Accusations of administration mishandling sexual assault cases and a fraternity that sent a sexist email have hit national headlines. People have been feeling frustrated and scared and confused, myself included. On top of all of that emotional pressure, I have been physically exhausted this entire week. You know those weeks where everything seems to be due and you have a thousand meetings and of course, you get sick? Yeah, I had one of those types of weeks. There was a point where I was awake for 38 hours straight this week. It was a little rough. That is why a boy unnecessarily holding the library door for me at 1:37 am on a Tuesday night/Wednesday morning made such an impact.

To the Boy Who Held the Door,

First of all, thank you. Thank you for going out of your way at 1:37 am to make my life a little easier. I know you probably didn't think twice about it and haven't thought about it since, but it to me it meant so much. I have literally zero idea who you are. All I know about you is that you were wearing a hat and earphones, so that limits it to like the entire school. You reminded me that there are some people here who are genuinely good with good intentions, at 1:37 am, that is exactly what I needed.

So, thank you,

Anna

This concept is about more than a boy holding a door for a few extra seconds, however. Like I previously said, I have had a long week. I cannot even begin to explain the amount of Snapchats and texts I have gotten from people showing their support and checking in to see how I was doing. Both my friends from home and my friends here have shown they were concerned and wanted to do whatever they possibly could to help. This week has reminded me the importance of being kind to one another, and how far a "how r u" Snapchat with a doggy filter can really go.

I believe Richmond is going through a healing process right now. People are voicing their opinions and the administration is trying to make sure things change for the better. While we heal and try to move on, remember to watch out for your fellow Spiders. Remember how far a simple text message checking in can go. And most importantly, remember to hold the door for the person behind you. Even if it adds a few more seconds to your day, think about the lasting impact that small action could have.