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The Blessing of a Big Sister

An older sister is more than just a sibling, she is also your best friend.

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The Blessing of a Big Sister
Maureen Rehmer

I have an older sister; she is four years older than me to be exact. I love her so much that I honestly don't know what I would do without her. I know other people have strong relationships with their older sisters as well. So here is a letter to our big sisters:

To my Big Sister,

Having a you in my life is one of the greatest things in the world!

You have always been there for me. The countless times I needed a laugh or was having a rough day and I just needed to rant. Often you were the shoulder I cried on, and you sat there with me and let me cry it out. Most importantly, you have always been there to give me advice or guidance when I felt lost or confused.

Having my big sister has been the biggest blessing in my entire life. Life honestly is really difficult at times; balancing school, social life, my health, and time to talk with my family back home can sometimes be stressful, but you have helped me find a way to take a step back, take a breath, and figure out when to accomplish everything. You constantly remind me that I don't need to finish everything at once; some things can wait.

I have learned so many life lessons from you. I know I tend to sound annoyed or agitated when you give advice but I really do appreciate it. I know you are just looking out for me and you worry about me 'cause you don't want me to make some of the same mistakes you did. You just want the best for me in life. So believe me, when you're giving your advice and I sound annoyed and you think I am not listening, I really am.

I know if I ever need support in anything you are always in my corner cheering me on. And if I am struggling you will drop everything and help in what ever way you can. Having your constant support has helped keep me going when I struggle with things or get stuck on something, especially when I felt like I was down in the dumps.

I cannot thank you enough for everything you have ever done for me and what you will continue to do for me in the future. You truly are a blessing in my life. I know I keep repeating it, but it's the truth and I want you to know how much you truly mean to me.

Thank you again for everything you have done for me and everything you will do in the future. I love you so much, and know I will always be there for you too.

Love Always,

Your little sister

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