As a young woman in college, I feel this is important to get out in the open. It's not that women are picky people (but we actually are) but some dudes just have to stop doin what they're doin sometimes. I have liked a few guys and just in one moment everything changed because of something they did/ the way they acted. Here are some of those things:
1. Bad Breath
If you constantly have bad breath, chances are I will stop talking to you. I'm serious. Brush your teeth, but mostly, brush your tongue too.
2. People who talk/post about other girls to get you jealous
He can't tell if you're into him or not so he tries to test you out by talking about other girls. At that point, shake it off and just tell him you don't like him like that already.
3. People who boast about their money
Unless you're a gold-digger, I cannot see how this is a turn-on. Cool, you make a lot of money, got something else you'd like to share with me? Like how you're still shallow while you're swimming in all that money?
4. People who get insecure around you
Having a confident person and a shy person is one weird combination. I guess this depends the level of each, but if either side are both extremes, things can get weird very quickly.
5. Laziness
Make the plans, get out of bed, make an effort, do something. Show me you're working on yourself as a person, making yourself better every day. Laziness is nothing another person wants to be involved with, unless they're lazy too, and I'm sure there are couples out there that are.
6. Rowdy Drinkers
If you're the type that comes back from a night of drinking with any sort of blood on you, you're not the type for most people. Rowdy drinkers are attention-seekers and nobody likes an attention-seeker.
7. Bad texter...or too much of a good texter
I get it if someone is clingy that they may get annoying, but if they're annoying, just drop them! If the conversation is hours apart per text, there is something wrong and you have too much patience for that person. Text someone who wants to text you first and often. And if you're a person that excessively texts someone, you're pretty annoying too. There is definitely a happy medium between the two...find it.
8. Mansplaining
Don't talk down on girls. It's disrespectful and degrading.