Can you be content with your life but be evolving as a person at the same time? Absolutely. Too often, we will become content with our lives and then slowly start to fall into a funk where we are unhappy with where we are at. Start with these steps to make sure you never reach that funk!
1. Eliminate the negatives
Easier said than done, I know. But, first, start with yourself. Positive thinking goes a long way once you start doing, so you won't even be able to tolerate the negative energy.
2. Compliment yourself
Conceited? No. How you talk to yourself is the key to your self-esteem. The more you boost yourself up the harder it will be for others to bring you down.
3. Work out
This is not only helping you physically but mentally too. Dedicate two days out of your week to do something active you will be amazed at how wonderful you feel.
4. Meditate
You might be thinking what does meditation have to do with any of this? Believe it or not, meditation can release the many stresses making you feel refreshed. It also allows you to feel more connected with yourself. Too often we lose sight of that, why not reconnect?
5. Learn to say no
If you're like me, you can never say no because you're afraid of letting anyone down. Say it. If you pile too much on your plate, most likely you won't be happy with the outcome anyways, so go with your gut instinct and a better opportunity will come your way.
6. Forgive yourself
Bad grade on an exam? Went over your budget for the week? That's okay. The only way we can learn is by making mistakes. Either way, life is going to move forward, might as well be in a positive direction.
7. Forgive others
You cannot control others but, you can control yourself. Holding a grudge will only throw off your energy. Learn to forgive and let go; you will only see benefits from it.
8. Step out of your comfort zone
How am I going to be the best version of myself if I'm out of my comfort zone? That's exactly why you're reading this. Maybe comfort is what's holding you back. Explore your options, they're endless.