2019 was intended to be the year I took my life back. And to be quite honest, it was. I have been fighting depression and anxiety since my middle school days. 2019 was the year I started utilizing therapy, started taking medication, and ventured into self-love. This was a huge deal for me; I finally discovered my true self.

Since discovering who I am, everything has been much easier. Since becoming level-minded, everything has been much clearer. Taking control of my life has made practically everything better. I am able to view situations from a logical point of view. I realize that my emotions are not always fact. I am more patient and caring.

Take back your life. Don't let anything deter you from having the life you deserve. Sometimes the worst situations are outside your control. Yet, once you are an adult, it is your responsibility to help yourself. Do not let negative thoughts sway the way you view yourself. I know this is easier said than done. It is all about the small changes. Your behavior must match your identity. You must accept where you are.

I'm a social work major, and my professors tell us that we have to learn to "meet clients where they are." It would be phenomenal if we could treat ourselves with the same kindness in which we treat others. Accepting where we are before we try to come up with solutions would benefit us more than becoming easily frustrated with our circumstances.

2020 is going to be my year. I am going to use all my strengths to my advantage and work on my weaknesses to become the best version of myself. This is to shape the life I want oh so badly. I know I am only 18, but there is nothing wrong with getting a head start. The world is my oyster. It could be yours too.