What It's Like Growing Up With More Guns Than Dolls | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

What It's Like Growing Up With More Guns Than Dolls

So...no, it's not weird and yes, I am proud.

57
What It's Like Growing Up With More Guns Than Dolls

I was five years old the first time I ever got behind the trigger, and from that moment on I was hooked. My mother and father set me up with a little .410 and had me tentatively hold on to the stock and barrel and point it at a water balloon 10 yards away. I did not exactly know what I was doing but I sure was excited. The moment I released the trigger (granted my eyes were closed) I heard my parents cheering and congratulating their future Annie Oakley. Ever since then I would become accustomed to wearing camouflage, slinging a .12 gauge over my shoulder, and heading out to go take on the next challenge. It was not just my personal preference, but it was just the world I grew up in.

My home is adorned with trophies, and no I do not mean the plastic gold ones you get at a soccer game. There are antlers, birds, and other miscellaneous taxidermied animals. This was just normal for me, I never gave it a second guess, and I actually thought it was strange when I would visit a friend's house that was lacking the same adornment. We truly are products of our society, and for myself, I was a product of gun clubs, pheasant hunts, and bird dogs (of which we have six). This world led me to my first jobs (working at a few gun clubs) and some of my best friends. By the time I was in high school I knew for being the "country girl" who was from a farm and who shot things on the weekend, and I loved it. I embraced it, even when I was called a horse every day (aren't high schoolers just so creative??). It wasn't until my freshman year of College that I realized this world I have been so familiar and comfortable with was not one many people knew even existed.

On my first day in the fall of the freshman year, we were asked to give our name, year, and a fun fact about ourselves. My fun fact always used to be I love to clay shoot so naturally, that was the fun fact I used in this first class. Little did I know it would cause the whole room to look at me strangely and my professor ask, "What's that?" (also little did I know this professor was extremely liberal and was pro-gun control...guess how well we got along...) but that's a different story altogether. Ever since that day, I would be hesitant to mention that I loved to shoot because the association with guns automatically makes people take a step back and look at you differently. Suddenly being the country girl from upstate New York was no longer my cute personality description, but rather a negative attribute that made me look less worldly and hick-like.

The word "Gun" in college can be equated to "Hillary Clinton" on a shooting range...it doesn't make a lot of people feel practically comfortable. My university is comprised of a lot of Long Island, Manhattan, Suburban CT, and New Jersey natives who are not all that familiar with gun safety and gun practice making that topic one they try to avoid, which also makes me feel awkward since I simply can't relate. People have a huge fear of them because they are something they are not familiar with and that is truly unfortunate. I believe most people should have at least basic knowledge of gun safety (let alone firearm operation) that way they would be able to make a situation safe if they were to ever encounter one.

Other than the multitude of people I have met in college who are not familiar with guns, I have actually met a few people in college that have the same interests as me. I find that the stereotype given to us college-aged-gun-loving-Americans is not at all true and people should be more open to learning about those whose backgrounds don't involve competitive cheerleading or dance. I am proud of my background and my bubble, and hopefully, more people will be able to step out of their comfort zone and who knows maybe one day even step onto the gun range, after learning about proper safety procedures of course.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

629258
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading... Show less

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading... Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

522696
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading... Show less
Relationships

The Importance Of Being A Good Person

An open letter to the good-hearted people.

798497
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading... Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments