Being the oldest sibling is by far one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. In a way, being the oldest sibling is like being the experiment for your parents and ultimately becoming a parent to your younger siblings. I have two younger siblings and I view them as my children. Being that they are only a few years younger than me, this seems odd to most people. When you think about it though, I have been there for them since they were born, watched them take their first steps, and start their first day of school.
It all started when my parents got divorced, I was the oldest child so it became my job to figure out which
It is also my job to guide them and help them. If they have a problem or need advice, they can always come to me. If they feel like they can't go to our mother with something, they come to me. If they ever needed a ride home from a party or got into trouble, I would assume they would come to me. It is part of my job in this older sister/parent role I have created for myself. My siblings have become my kids in a sense. I have watched them grow up into the amazing young adults that they have become and I would like to think that I have helped them get there.
When people ask me if I plan on having children in the future, I always say no. From my point of view, I have already helped raise two children. I have been there through the terrible twos and the lovely hormonal teenage years. I have done a fine job helping my mother raise my siblings and I am proud to say that