If you find yourself being excessively "too nice" to individuals that don't even deserve it, don't just let it go, let it build you up. The energy you willingly intact into your personality ritual that is coming across as "too nice" to an individual, may be a warning sign.
Removeand reroute your motive with such individuals that don't love you for you and go forward in the path you choose to display that positivity in because the energy you ignite isn't as microscopic as you think it may be due to variations of thoughts those negative people are synchronized too think.
Sit back, relax and learn how to kick-ass because being tough isn't a bad thing, if you're being whole heartily real with how you perceive that emotional ride. In order to buckle down, you must learn to reconstruct situations. The harsh truth is, individuals, where ever you go, always scope out the weak.
It's unfortunate that being overly nice, shows a side of weakness and thus humanity declares the strong to always succeed and win gold. Two words: natural selection. In order not to loose yourself, remember creating a tough shield for protection, is always a good thing.
Kill these 5 things, and you'll be on you're way to a stronger you.
1) Being taken advantage of:
You must establish an inner-system where reevaluation takes place in order to empower your moment. Don't be taken advantage of. Be sure to always voice your opinion and never be afraid to stick up for yourself. It's easy to fake a smile, but it's easier to just be you. It's no formula, it's pretty simplistic. In order to go through an emotional demo, remember that having a hard exterior shows strength.
2) Being flaked:
If you ever question yourself because of a down right horrible friend, partner, or family member who just doesn't care to be a part of your life, remember it's them, not you. The truth is, everybody has their personal breaking point and it's sad when growing apart from people becomes a reality, but toughen it up.
You tried your best and if it bothers you, stick up for yourself and don't hide anything. Don't ever let anybody make you feel like you're a burden because you care too much, you worry too often or because you simply have a genuine and pure heart with raw intentions. The belittlement you feel from an individual bringing you down is exactly what they strive to make you feel.
Certain people just don't care whether they hurt you or not because they enjoy and thrive off your down fall, or they just really, really don't care. In this day and age, a simple block is the best solution, physically and emotionally. Keep doing you.
3) Being known as the person who 'never gets mad," etc:
It's okay to get mad. Don't be taken for granted. If you’re simply being nice automatically, without reflecting on your own thoughts and values, you’re not being good to yourself. If you don’t think about how you really feel, being agreeable is simply another mask you’ve put on to hide yourself from the world. Give yourself a chance to express your inner emotions.
