If you're like me, then you've entered a new world full of new people, places and things. For the first time ever, I'm living outside the state my parents live in. My entire undergraduate career took place in my hometown so my family and friends were just a short drive away. Yet, here I am, four hours away from home and trying to figure everything out. By no means do I have all the answers, but hopefully we can figure it out along the way.

My first nights alone were spent crippled by anxiety. On multiple occasions I sat wondering if I could actually make it on my own. In fact, I didn't eat the first night alone because I was so anxious. The amount of things that needed to be accomplished seemed insurmountable: set-up internet, electricity, mail, bank, buy books, register for class, etc. The list continues and I couldn't decide where to begin. Instead, I stayed in bed all day and only ate a pack of crackers. So how did I get past this anxiety you might ask? Start small. Unpack the smallest box, and move your way up to the biggest. Once unpacked, choose the task that will take the shortest amount of time to accomplish. As you cross things off the list, your confidence will grow and your willingness to complete tasks will grow. I know it is easier said then done, but try it anyway.

Of course it's difficult to begin, but you have to move forward. At the same time, don't be afraid to take some time to be worried (Lord knows I took that time). Sit down and cry! Acknowledge the feeling then move forward. My first night I sat on my bed just praying that things would be okay. That night was my moment to feel down and out. Don't be afraid of that moment. Instead, embrace that moment before taking those steps to move forward. You're going to do great.

I feel like this article is slightly disjointed, but maybe my take-home message will help. Starting something new (whether it be moving, starting school, or writing your first article) is confusing and terrifying. Not everything is perfect and the process of change takes time. Step back for just a moment. Embrace the lows of your emotion before trying to get everything started. Things might go wrong, but things can also be wonderful. You will grow and learn along the way. Remember that you're not alone, in fact, I'm on that same journey.