It took me 18 years to get over the fear of getting my hair colored. Don't get me wrong, I wanted ombre or balayage badly, but was so scared it would be too blonde and look bad.
August 2016 is when I finally decided to get a subtle balayage on my hair. This means they paint on the color. I asked for only the mid section and below to get colored, as I did not want to have to maintain my roots.
I then got my hair colored again in August 2017.
Here is a picture of my hair the first time:
Here is a picture of my hair the second time:
I love my hair and how it turned out. The only issue I've had, is that it has gotten a little brass colored now. I recently went to the hairdresser and she recommended I use blue shampoo or conditioner to cancel out the brassy tones. I have only used it a few times, but I think I see a difference!
Some helpful things to do when getting your hair colored: