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Be The Friend Who

Tips for being the best friend you can be.

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Friendship is a two-way street. It is one thing to find a friend, but it is something else to be one. It is a specific kind of relationship that requires a certain level of intimacy. Sometimes we get so lost in school, work, new romances, etc. that we forget how to be be there for another person on that level.

Here is a guide to being the best friend you can be:

Be the friend who knows how to laugh. Life is so full of fun and laughter. Embrace it. Live for those moments with your best friend when you just cannot stop giggling for no apparent reason. Accept that neither of you are perfect and laugh at yourselves, without fear and without judgement. Laugh until there are tears streaming down your face and your stomach hurts.

Be the friend who is always there. We can get so wrapped up in our day to day lives that we miss the signs of a friend in need, or we neglect them completely. Be aware of your relationships, and do not take your friends for granted. Be there for them when they're hurting or feeling alone, and do not just call on them when you need something. Like any relationship, a friendship requires time and attention.

Be the friend who tells it to them straight. Sometimes our friends get lost in themselves or begin going down the wrong path. Be the friend who cares enough to tell them. Do not stand idly and watch them self-destruct. You must be accountable for one another. Life can get really hard at times, but a good support system can get you through most anything.

Be the friend who knows when to have fun and when to be serious. Some of the most fun times you will ever have will be with friends, but even so, there is always a time to be serious. Do not be the one who tries to laugh everything off. Laugh as much as you can, but know when to stop. Be serious about things like work and family. But also be serious about your friends. Help each other through the hard times. Be there when they've had a loss or are struggling. Help them prepare for that job interview or a big exam. Do your best to keep things balanced.

Be the friend who is supportive. Encourage your friends to do what they love and follow their dreams. Be the one to support them through the good times and the bad times. Show them that they can do anything that they set their mind to and that you will be there cheering for them all the way. Encourage them to love life and live it to the fullest.

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