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I Didn't Attend A Gay Wedding...I Attended A Wedding

One day, same sex marriages will become a norm all around the world.

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I Didn't Attend A Gay Wedding...I Attended A Wedding
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Three weeks ago, I attended my cousin's wedding…a day that was very near and dear to my heart.

Well, I can definitely tell you one thing: the fact that two men got married was not the only reason why I was so ecstatic about the day.

Yes, a wedding between two men or two women is extremely exciting these days. I think it’s imperative that we show our support for same-sex couples, and consider gay weddings a norm all around the world.

However, I also tried my best to put myself in Benny and Josh's shoes. Even though they appreciated all of the support from friends and family, I believe they simply wanted to be treated like every other straight couple.

Now, don’t get me wrong. On the one hand, it’s absolutely important to draw attention to the fact that two men got married. It’s not as widely accepted as it should be right now. On the other hand, it’s also important to draw more attention to the fact that two men love each other…just like any other man and woman.

So to put my thoughts into perspective, my cousin’s wedding was no different than any other Andres wedding I have been to. Their love for each other was apparent, their ceremony was filled with supportive family and friends, and their reception had plenty of celebration.

In addition to that, their happiness was contagious. Neither of them could stop smiling at each other the entire day, and hundreds of people were so happy for them.

Even though I don’t frequently hang out with my cousins, they are probably some of the kindest, most lovable, and accepting people I have ever met. They care about every person they meet, and I know that both of them would do anything for me if I asked.

Because they are such good people, it especially makes me sad to see others disapprove of their marriage.

Therefore, in the future, I see gay couples treated as complete equals. I see that we no longer have to say, “Yeah, I’m going to a gay wedding this Saturday.” Instead, that phrase can eventually be changed to, “Yeah, I’m going to my cousin Benny and Josh's wedding," no questions asked.

Someday, friends and family members will not decline a wedding invitation because they disapprove. They’ll say they can’t make it due to other reasons, and they’ll be telling the truth without a doubt.

Same sex couples will no longer have to worry about rejections or discomfort from others, and they’ll never have to feel hurt or betrayed.

And most importantly, their wedding ceremony will be attended by all, instead of those who come solely for the food and drinks.

One day, gay couples are going to be fully accepted in our society. I’m bound and determined to help make that happen.

As you can see, I didn’t attend a “gay” wedding. I attended a wedding just like any other.

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