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As One Door Closes, Another One Opens

Because life can suck every once in a while.

Sarah Redman
Oct 11, 2016
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As One Door Closes, Another One Opens
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Let’s just say that my personal life, regarding relationships has been a bumpy road. I’ve had some bad luck in my personal life but it has made me open my eyes to other aspects of my life.

As one door closes, another one much grander opens.

This year has been my first year teaching at a dance studio for individuals with disabilities. Every Friday I get to go in and have the most fun I have ever had. My students are the ones who let me leave with the biggest smile on my face. If I have a bad day or a bad week (which has been happening a lot for me lately) I get to enjoy two hours of pure happiness.

Standing back and watching my students have the greatest 45 minutes of not only their life, but my life as well is the greatest feeling. No matter what they are going through that 45 minutes makes them forget everything else going on in their life. My students have made me realize that I need to love myself and be happy with myself first.

No matter what anybody is going through, you need to hands down love yourself first. Anybody going through this or feels the same way needs to understand that you are beautiful and good things will come your way. You can get through this. Make sure that first door closes and locks behind you because you don’t ever want to go back to that again.

My door of recent relationship issues has been closed and locked for good and the glamorous door of loving me has opened and made a grand entrance.

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