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The Art of Living With Roommates

There are some things you just sort of just get used to after a while.

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Something almost every person experiences during their time in college is the unique and unforgettable experience of having roommates. Last summer I moved into a house with four other girls. When I tell other people how many roommates I have, I usually receive a slight raise of the eyebrows, accompanied by a line similar to, “Wow, that’s a full house” and truth be told, it is. Though privacy may be limited, and I have no choice but to master the art of compromising, living with four other 20-year-old girls for the past seven months has made me realize something important: The bond and understanding that is formed between roommates is unlike any other relationship in my life. We understand parts of each other’s lives that other friends, significant others and family members just don’t quite get to experience.

Here are a few things that you sort of just get used to after living with roommates:

The house is filled with random decorations that don’t really match, but for some reason, everything looks perfectly in place. Each of my roommates and myself brought things into the house that represent a part of who we are and what we value. Sure, there isn’t really a common theme with the random Game of Thrones posters, mixed in with the old recliner from Craigslist next to the rug that came from someone’s grandma’s basement, but all of these various pieces put together truly make our little house feel like home.

I’ve learned how to differentiate between each person by the little things that they do. My roommates are easily identifiable by the type of music that’s coming from the kitchen or the sound of the footsteps that come through the front door.

Being the only one home has become a rather unfamiliar feeling. With five people under one roof, it’s a rare occasion to have the house to myself, and that has somehow become the norm.

There is always a friend to hang out with and no pre-made plans are required. Whether it’s venting about a long day, jumping in midway through a movie, or just chatting while we whip up lunch, there is always someone to share part of your day with.

Sharing becomes a perfected art form. Living with roommates requires taking turns getting groceries, sharing the TV, sharing kitchen utensils and sharing one shower. It takes some time and effort but eventually everyone learns what is off limits and what is fair game.

No pants can sometimes lead to some problems. With five people in one house, there are usually a lot of guests coming through the house. Pants are optional but it can be risky business with boyfriends, classmates and friends making visits throughout the day.

My housemates and I have all become part of some sort of team. Whether it's hosting a party, finding out how to replace the battery in the smoke detector or finding the courage to kill the gigantic spider next to the dryer, we all work together to reach some sort of common goal.

Sometimes it takes a lot of work and sometimes it takes no effort at all. Either way, living in a house with a group of girls has taught me the art of compromise and understanding. I’m sure I speak for most college kids when I say a mansion all to myself with a beach view is the ultimate goal but until then, a little, rented house that is shared with some good friends will do just fine.

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