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Are You Willing To Give up Your Double Standard ?

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Sometimes in life we try to govern ourselves by a certain standard. We live by the rule that one can never say what they would do in an adverse situation, we tend to judge each other by what they do and the reflection never goes back to yourself. So my question I posed to you would you break up with somebody for cheating on you. But, marry someone who has had a separate family while he was married to his ex-wife? For instance Adrienne Bailon the host of The Real dated Robert Kardashian from 2007 - 2009. Though she stands behind the claim that Rob cheated on her that's why they broke up and that she never step out on him still is questionable. She said on her recent talk show that aired in September that if the trust is broken it's hard to repair and if there is no trust there is no relationship. So why in the world would she marry a man who was married with two children and had two other children outside of his marriage? I ask this question because wouldn't this bring up red flags all over not to marry this kind of person. That's like me saying I would never trust someone with no arms , but all my friends don't have their arms. I understand that as we get older that the decision we make may change during the course of life. I also comprehend that we all make mistakes and we shouldn't judge people because it's a learning experience and we don't know what happened to cause it. But one thing I know is if you don't trust an individual nine times out of ten the relationship will not work because you will have to second guess them. I don't care if you have that person by your side all the time , if a person wants to cheat they will find a way to do so.One fact that remains the same is if they did it to one , who are you? A person can say they love you all the time , but why would they cheat on you. Then your left with the decision whether or not to stay and deal with this situation, or should pack up and hit the roadAt what point in your life are you willing to adjust your belief system in order to be happy in life.

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