Are You Living Or Just Existing? | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Health and Wellness

Are You Living Or Just Existing?

If you're not happy with your life, have the courage to change it.

38
Are You Living Or Just Existing?

The other day, at about 3 a.m., I was lying in bed wide awake when a thought struck me. And I haven’t been able to get it out of my mind since. I had spent all day going to classes, doing homework, and living my normal boring life. Nothing crazy, out of the blue, or even remotely interesting had happened. It was overall a dull, unmemorable day. And suddenly, I wondered, “What am I doing?”

Well, I’ve been doing the same thing about all my life. I go to school, come home, do homework, watch some TV, and go to bed, only to start it all over again the next day. But still, I don’t really know what I’m doing – what my purpose is in all of this. And to me, purpose is a necessity. Without it, what good am I? Am I living just to exist…or to do something more? I’m not okay with just going through the motions without stopping to wonder why I’m doing it.

And life is just beginning to seem like a routine to me. From the second we’re born, we’re given a blueprint for life with relatively minimal opportunity to tweak or change anything. We’re thrown into school, expected to go to college, forced to get a full-time job just to make ends meet, and continue on until we can finally retire.

It’s all about go, go, go. This blueprint leaves little space for adventure, fun, and just plain living. You can’t tell me that we were put here on this great big Earth, against all odds, and our purpose in life is to just make it through to the weekend. No, we were made for something bigger than that.

I’m not going to say that school or work is a waste and that we should all drop out or call it quits. Getting a college education helps you not only better yourself, but it also sets you up for success later on with your career. And having a career can be not only an outlet for you to do what you love – it can also a way for you to better society. But, I am saying that we all just need to take a second and slow down.

You - yes, you - need to take the time to remember the little things. Take time for yourself, be selfish once in a while and go on an adventure just because you want to. Do something crazy. Break the routine of your day to day life.

Find something you’re passionate about and chase it. Actually, live a little bit.

You have plenty of time to get where you’re going. Don’t stress. Just make sure that along the way, you leave some time for adventure.

Leave some time for you.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Lifestyle

Bucket List To Live In The Now

Find excitement in your life and start exploring wherever you are right here, right now.

246
mu bucket list

I was sitting at my cubicle, now that I am an adult, looking at the rain pouring down on the windowsill, bumming on life, wishing for the rain to just stop for a full day.

There are moments where we count down the hours until work is over and how many more days till the weekend, and this many weeks until something exciting. Or something like that? Well, I was bumming because my next day off from work is not until Memorial Day weekend, which is not until the end of May. And since this is my first year out of college being a “real person,” I am totally missing the winter, spring and summer breaks. I am sure all of us have felt this way even if just for a hot minute…

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

11 Ways To Survive Finals As Told By Leslie Knope

Because you know you're going to be stressed out, and Leslie knows exactly how to survive.

236
Everything hurts and I'm dying

So finals are on their way. That's right everybody, finals are about to start.

But hey, don't panic. Start getting your affairs in order and prepare for a week of hell. Here's a few things Leslie Knope wants you to do to make your finals week just a little bit less stressful:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

40 Perfect Gifts for 'I Have No Idea What I Want For Christmas' 🎁✨

It's a time of love, family, memory-making, and gift-giving. But also a time of stressing over the perfect gift.

118023
Christmas gifts
StableDiffusion

It's officially December. There is less than a month of 2023, and I still feel like yesterday was summer. Now comes the merriest time of the year, the Christmas season.

Everyone has been waiting for this time of year since mid-October (which is way too early, in my opinion) or before. It's a time of love, family, memory-making, and gift-giving. A lot of times when I ask friends and family what they want, I get a lot of "I don't know" or "I don't care."

Keep Reading...Show less
Kent State University
Great Value Colleges

If you go to or went to Kent State, then more than likely you have done or will do some of these things.

1. You’ve slipped and fallen on the ice at least once.

The winters at Kent are brutal, and while the heated sidewalks and some great snow boots are always a help, there’s no chance you won’t bust it on the ice at least once in your four plus years at school.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

5 Reasons Why Finals Week Is The Worst For People Who Love Christmas

Christmas is on the brain during the month of December, not finals! How do you expect me to study?

236
santa claus with red background
Photo by krakenimages on Unsplash

Christmas is literally so close. We can almost taste it. But there is just one thing standing between you and the big day: FINALS. It's not the studying, lack of sleep, last minute cram sessions or crappy food intake that is the worst... but the fact that you cannot focus because, well, CHRISTMAS. How do professors expect you to focus when Christmas is soooo soon. For all my fellow Christmas lovers out there, I feel your pain.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments