Are You In Love? | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

Are You In Love?

I asked friends and family if they have ever been in love and how they knew and this what they said.

25
Are You In Love?
Pexels

Back in December, I asked a few of my friends and family members how they knew they were in love. This sparked my interest, and I became interested in if my other family members and friends had ever been in love and if so, how did they know. I think this is an interesting question because everyone seems to think of being in love in completely different ways. Because of this, here is how some of the people in my life knew they were in love:

1. Corie-Friend From School

Have you ever been in love? Yes.

How did you know? Because he's my best friend. He builds me up more than I ever thought was possible. He's always there and supports me 24/7. I'm in awe by him and the unconditional love he shows me. I would do anything for him and I know he would do the same for me.

2. Katie-Friend From School

Have you ever been in love? Yes.

How did you know? The things that drive me crazy in everyone else, I love in that person. Their annoying habits don't bother me, and you can be loyal and honest and trust you will get the same in return.

3. Seth-Friend From School

Have you ever been in love? No.

What do you think it would feel like? Having a connection that's reliable.

4. Kevin-Family

Have you ever been in love? Yes.

How did you know? As soon as I saw her.

5. Anitra-Family

Have you ever been in love? Yes.

How did you know? We started as friends and I realized how amazing he was.

6. Noelle-Friend From School

Have you ever been in love? No.

What do you think it would feel like? Everything I don't like about myself, or that people don't like, that they would except that it's the way I am and vice versa. I would hope that even when we aren't doing anything, just being around one another, that I would still want his company more than anyone else. That in a crowd of people, he'd be the one I choose.

7. Hannah-Friend From School

Have you ever been in love? Yes, I'm very much so in love.

How did you know? I knew because he was the first person I thought of in the morning and the last person I thought of at night, and still is. Anytime something happens, he is the first person I want to tell. I can't say his name without smiling and have felt that way since our first date. I have loved him since that day, possibly before. I'd never met a person so willing to be exactly who they are and not care what anyone thought. The day I knew for sure that he was the man I needed to marry was a couple of years in. He was driving me home from his house and we saw a dog laying in the middle of the street that had been hit by a car. He immediately stopped and turned on his hazards and goes to the dog. I'm obviously emotional, but he stayed calm and told me what I needed to do. He sat there and petted the dog, just talking to it, to try and keep it calm because we really didn't know if the dog would make it. We got Pepper, the dog's name, loaded into the car and he asked me to drive, so he could sit in the back with Pepper. The whole way to the hospital he talked to the dog, telling it to hold on and also managed to keep me calm enough to drive. In that moment, I saw how caring and genuine he really was, and knew I needed him to keep me calm and care for me that way for the rest of my life.

8. Aristeo-Friend From School

Have you ever been in love? No.

What do you think it would feel like? I'm guessing "in love" would be a commitment to someone else. I've been so independent and fostered in a sense of maturity that falling in love hasn't happened yet. I guess it's going to hit me in the gut. Almost like what John Mayer talks about when he sings "Stop This Train."

9. Yvonne-Family

Have you ever been in love? Yes.

How did you know? For sure knew it was love when he laughed at all my dumb jokes, listened to my stories, and remembers them, the thoughtfulness in his eyes when I talk, being able to always be myself, and being excited to share stories with him about my day, and a million other things that made me know he was the one. Oh, yeah, and after the first time he saw me without make-up after a workout, we still had another date!

10. Adrian-Family

Have you ever been in love? Yes.

How did you know? I knew when her smile was more important than mine. I knew when I realized sacrifices would be made for someone else, and I was okay with that.

After hearing how others feel when they are in love, I think it's hard to say that being in love is one specific feeling. I hate this answer, but I guess you know when you know.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

188249
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

13683
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

456935
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

26069
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments