After being engaged for a few months now, I've had a lot of people ask their fair share of questions. I've had a lot of questions get asked multiple times. I've decided once and for all to compile a list of questions that I have been asked and I'll answer them all.
1. "How did he propose?"
Chances are, if you don't already know the answer to this question, we probably don't talk much. We spent the day out and about and going to different places and restaurants and we ended up at Noble Park and took a walk around and ended up under a gazebo. I was looking at the geese on the water and he tapped my back so I would turn around and there he was on one knee.
2. "Did he ask for your parents blessing?"
He asked my mom for her blessing and she gave it to him, yes.
3. "When is the big day?"
We have no idea. Because we're both from different countries, we have to go through a lot more processes than just your average couple. It's a lot of paperwork and a lot of money.
4. "Are you engaged because you're pregnant?"
No, I'm not pregnant.
5. "Who are you inviting to the wedding?"
We haven't even gotten that far yet. It could be a small wedding, could be a large one. Who knows, really?
6. "Where is the honeymoon?"
We'll let our friends and family know once we straighten out the details.
7. "Are you changing your name?"
Yes, I will be taking his last name.
8. "What does your ring look like?"
I don't ever mind showing my ring, but please don't ask how expensive (or non-expensive) it was.
9. "Do you have colors picked out yet?"
We have an idea of what colors we would like the wedding to have, but there are no final details.
10. “Am I invited to the wedding?"
If you have to ask if you're invited to my wedding, then you probably know whether or not you're invited.
11. “How long have you two even been together?"
Not that it truly matters, but we've been together for a year and a half. PSA: The amount of time you've been with someone does not determine if you're ready to marry them or not