I’m a young lady that often utters swears. The theory that “young girls should not curse” has always puzzled me. Why do others feel the need to address my word choice? Why do they think they have the right to limit my vocabulary?

When I curse in public, glares of disgust are a frequent occurrence. “Young ladies shouldn’t use that language” is a less frequent occurrence, but it does happen. If you are one of those people who glares at me or attempts to lecture me when I curse in public, please take a step back and assess the situation.

Let’s assume I used my word of choice, the infamous “F” word. When I use this word, it is never used in a disrespectful or offensive manner towards another individual. To assess the situation ask yourself some questions. Why are you staring at me or lecturing me? Why does my language bother you?

If your answer is that it is “offensive”, I’m sorry but I don’t give a f*ck. My language was not directed toward you, so why are you offended? If you don’t use curse words I have no problem with that, not everyone swears no big deal. I do, however, have a problem when you take it upon yourself to tell me not to swear. I promise you that I will never stop swearing because you are “offended.” I refuse to let the unwanted opinions of others direct my vocabulary.

Time and place direct our vocabulary. Believe it or not, I have a very clear understanding of when swearing is not suitable for a situation. In such situations I keep my vocabulary appropriate. I also have an understanding of when I can curse.

In short.. please take your opinion and leave me alone. It is my right to swear and I will do just that as I please.