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An Open Letter To The Guy That Led Me On

Hopefully a guy will treat me the same way you did but better and will actually stay.

Rebecca Kay Stefano
Aug 22, 2016
Mitchell College
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An Open Letter To The Guy That Led Me On
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Dear Guy That Led Me On,

How does it feel? Reading a letter that is about you? About you being so sweet to me. About you treating me the way I always wanted to be treated. Taking me out on dates. Taking me to the movies and we cuddle. Doing anything that I wanted to do. Me, falling for you because you treated me so well. Thinking of taking it slow and see where it goes. Me, thinking it will be a perfect relationship.

[The text that I didn't want to get.]

Him: "You're gonna hate me"

Me: "What?"

Him: "I'm in a relationship"

A guy, who you were talking about dating, and being in a relationship with. All of a sudden gets a new girl. Seeing him post everything about her on Instagram, Letting her text a photo of herself to me using your phone. Taking everything down that was related to me on Social Media. Not letting me add you on Facebook. Whenever I text you to see how you are; you are with her. She tries face-timing me from your phone while I am at work. She tries everything to make me jealous of her.

You said you are a nice guy and you wouldn't ever hurt me. You would move a mountain for me. You would hurt anyone that hurts me. You said we had a connection, the first time we saw each other.

Was that a lie?

Was everything we did with each other a lie?

You led me on. Did you think I was just another girl who didn't care? Who didn't care about you? Who was just using you? That's not who I am. When I am truly interested in a guy I give my all to be by his side. To be there for him. To show him that I am Interested in dating him, and wanting a future with him.

You chose your fate when you decided to lead me on like that. You don't think I am still hurting? I am. Hopefully a guy will treat me the same way you did, but better, and will actually stay.

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