Tired of being hurt? Tired of being used? Or what about feeling like you're never good enough? Well, just know this: You aren't alone. I find myself feeling all three of these once I open my heart up. So girls, this is for you.
Dear girls who fall too easily,
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First, just know this: Caring isn't a bad thing, hoping for something to work out isn't a bad thing and loving sure as hell isn't a bad thing. Every time we get the door slammed in our faces, time after time, we think that we did something wrong, when in reality, all we did was care.
And yeah, maybe our caring came off a bit too strong. But that's not our fault. See, the thing is, once you're surrounded by happy couples, you slowly find yourself wanting that. As soon as you get the chance, you put everything you've got into it. Then you quickly fall for him. And many times his heart isn't all into it as much as yours are, but don't worry, because the time will come when someone will fall just as hard for you just as quick.
Now we are commonly mistaken as clingy or needy. We quickly get called crazy, but we aren't crazy. We're hurt. Being thrown from guy to guy to guy does affect us. We are on a battlefield and you think we would give up. But we don't, and we constantly find ourselves vulnerable and in the middle of the same mess again.
So listen up, girls. It's not you, it's them. Keep that thought in your mind and never let it fade away. We aren't obsessed or crazy. We're normal. After time after time of being used, you might think differently. But just know this: You. Are. Enough. In fact, you are more than enough. You fall too easily, but so what? Yes, it leads to us getting hurt more after than others. But I would rather put my heart on the table and surrender than to lock it in a cage and never express it to any guy. Falling too easily will help us find the one. We aren't stupid for doing this. We aren't foolish for this. We are just girls who care so much that it effects us. Yes, we sometimes put ourselves in a spot that doesn't end well, but eventually, you falling over and over again will lead you to Mr. Right. Imagine how great that will feel. After all the heartbreaks and sad moments, you will have someone to call yours, someone who will fall for you in the same way that you have fallen for them.
So just know this: Others may not understand us (they might laugh at us), but let them go on ahead and laugh at the girls who fall too easily. Because we are who we are, and we should never change that.
