To the girls who don't like me,
I wish I could say that I care if you like me or not, but I don't. If there's anything I've learned in my first year of college, it's that not everyone is going to like me or what I do and that it's not my responsibility to please everyone. So this one is for all of you who dislike me.
First of all, this is my life to live. That being said, I never have any intention of purposely offending or hurting anyone with my actions or words. In a perfect world I would get along with all of you, but as we all know, life isn't perfect.
It takes a lot to get me to the point where I decided that we won't get along anymore or that we shouldn't be friends. It takes a lot for me to decide that I don't care if I offend you with what I say or do, but hey, there's a lot of you who have gotten me to that point. I'm a strong independent person and I'm not going to let you or anyone else for that matter walk all over me. I am allowed to form my own thoughts and act on them how I feel appropriate. You don't dictate what I say or do, only I can do that.
I don't care if you don't like me or what I do. If you don't like me or my actions, unfollow me, unfriend me, do whatever you need to do to remove me from your life. Don't pretend to be my friend and talk about me behind my back about what you don't like what I do, say or write. I will find out if you're talking about me behind my back. If you have a problem with me and how I handle my life, say it to my face or keep it to yourself. I don't need your approval to live my life.
I've learned that in order to be happy with myself and my life, I have to get rid off all the negative energy in my life. That negative energy includes all you girls who don't like me. Chances are you don't like me, and I don't like you, so stop talking about me, stalking my social media and trying to bring me down. I'm stronger than all of the negative comments you throw my way because I don't care about what you have to say.
I'm not saying that your opinion is irrelevant because you don't like me, maybe it's relevant to someone else, but it's not the least bit relevant to me. If it hurts your feelings that I don't care about what you think of me, once again, remove yourself from my social media and life.
I'm going to continue to live my life how I see fit whether you like it or not. I've got one life to live and I'm going to pursue every passion that I want to and if I happen to step on some over-sensitive toes on my journey through life, either toughen up, or move out of my way.