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An Open Letter To The Girl Who Should Walk Away

Sometimes you have to walk away from what you want to find what you deserve.

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An Open Letter To The Girl Who Should Walk Away
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To the girl who needs to walk away,

You are a beautiful human who deserves the best. You are strong and you are capable of walking away. Don't fall for stupid mind games. Always remember that you deserve the best and only the best. Never let a guy tell you otherwise. Sometimes you have to walk away from what you want to find what you deserve.

If you find yourself being mistreated by a guy, throw up the peace signs. He is not worth your time or your effort. It won't be easy, but it is what needs to be done. It's okay to walk out of someone's life if you don't feel like you belong in it anymore.

No matter how badly someone treats you, never drop down to their level. Remain calm, stay strong and walk away. Be the bigger person and move on.

"Knowing when to walk away is wisdom. Being able to is courage. Walking away, with your head held high is dignity."

If your friends don't approve of him and your parents can't stand him, you should probably let him go. These people know you better than anyone else and they are just trying to look out for you.

Delete his number and ignore his texts. Delete him off social media if you need to. Do whatever is going to help you the most to move on. Go to your friends for support. They love you and want the best for you.

As one of my best friends once told me, you deserve to be treated like a princess. If he isn't going to treat you like a princess, he doesn't deserve to be in your kingdom.

Sometimes you have to walk away to find what you deserve. It's going to hurt. It will hurt a lot. Walk away because you're strong. You are stronger than you might ever think you are. It will be worth it in the end.

You deserve to be treated with love and respect. If he is not giving you love and respect, walk away. He is not worth your time or effort. Chances are, he will try to tell you everything that you want to hear. If other people are cautioning you to leave him, chances are, they are right. Sometimes it can be hard to tell when he is actually just really bad for you.

Never give up or lose faith in yourself. There really is somebody out there for everybody. It might take time to find your "soul mate", but it will happen. What's meant to be will always find its way. Everything truly happens for a reason.

After you walk away, focus on finding yourself. Discover a new passion and try new things. Don't be afraid to move on and talk to other guys. Moving on will be hard, but it is what you need to do. He will regret losing you one day. Never let one stupid guy ruin your life. He is not worth it. You deserve the best and only the best. Never forget it.

"Surrender to what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be."

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