An Open Letter To My Extended Family | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

An Open Letter To My Extended Family

"Family isn't always blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs."

119
An Open Letter To My Extended Family

To the family that adopts me as their own:

Thank you. Thank you for accepting me as member of your family. My heart feels completely dissatisfied with the few gratitude's I have given over the years. Its incredible how people that have no genetic loop with you, can become much more than some of your own immediate family. Many times we think our immediate family is all we have as support system, and that's when we start realizing we are wrong. Ive known you guys for years and every year that goes by the bond between us gets stronger and stronger. What you guys think is a simple gesture, for me it's a blessing. From not letting me feel alone when my mom is not in town, to making me feel like a big sister, to much more. It's all those little details that make it so special.

Thank you. Thank you for encouraging me every day to do better and better. For giving me advice from time to time. Because when you see that I start stepping off the tracks, next to my mom, you guys give me the extra push I need to figure it out. Like the numerous times you remind me that school comes first and the fun comes later. The significant times you guys remind me how hard I have to work to get to where I want. Also, reminding me several times that I will always have a special place in your hearts.

Thank you. Thank you for always having my back. Because when I've spent most of my hours in your house, you still invite me to places without asking for anything in return. For making a trip to Costco, like an adventure. For converting moments into memories. Because when I decided to study in the US, you guys always supported me and made my last days at home, the best days. For always keeping in touch even though we were miles away. For always finding the right words to say when I need them.

Thank you. Thank you for believing and trusting me. For trusting me enough to take part of the sacred space that divides family with friends and acquaintances. Trusting me enough to spend lots of time with me. Believing in me enough to encourage my decisions. Simply, thank you. For always looking out for me and my mom. If I live by one thing is that “We don't meet people by accident, they are meant to cross our paths for a reason.” So thank you. Thank you for crossing my path and always being there for me no matter what.

With lots of love and appreciation,

-Someone very blessed to have you in her life.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
friends
Photo by Elizeu Dias on Unsplash

If I have learned one thing in my lifetime, it is that friends are a privilege. No one is required to give you their company and yet there is some sort of shared connection that keeps you together. And from that friendship, you may even find yourself lucky enough to have a few more friends, thus forming a group. Here are just a few signs that prove your current friend group is the ultimate friend group.

Keep Reading...Show less
ross and monica
FanPop

When it comes to television, there’s very few sets of on-screen siblings that a lot of us can relate to. Only those who have grown up with siblings knows what it feels like to fight, prank, and love a sibling. Ross and Monica Geller were definitely overbearing and overshared some things through the series of "Friends," but they captured perfectly what real siblings feel in real life. Some of their antics were funny, some were a little weird but all of them are completely relatable to brothers and sisters everywhere.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Types Of Sorority Girls

Who really makes up your chapter...

1582
Sorority Girls
Owl Eyes Magazine

College is a great place to meet people, especially through Greek life. If you look closely at sororities, you'll quickly see there are many different types of girls you will meet.

1. The Legacy.

Her sister was a member, her mom was a member, all of her aunts were members, and her grandma was a member. She has been waiting her whole life to wear these letters and cried hysterically on bid day. Although she can act entitled at times, you can bet she is one of the most enthusiastic sisters.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

10 Reasons Why Life Is Better In The Summertime

Winter blues got you down? Summer is just around the corner!

1376
coconut tree near shore within mountain range
Photo by Elizeu Dias on Unsplash

Every kid in college and/or high school dreams of summer the moment they walk through the door on the first day back in September. It becomes harder and harder to focus in classes and while doing assignments as the days get closer. The winter has been lagging, the days are short and dark, and no one is quite themselves due to lack of energy and sunlight. Let's face it: life is ten times better in the summertime.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

10 Things That Describe You and Your College Friends

The craziest, funniest, and most unforgettable college memories are impossible to create without an amazing group of friends.

1060
College Friends
Marina Lombardi

1. You'll never run out of clothes when you have at least four closets to choose from.

2. You embrace and encourage each other’s horrible, yet remarkable dance moves.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments