Dear Long Lost Bully,

Well it’s been years since we have seen each other, and I'm not sure where you are in life...but there're a few things that I want to say to you. I want to thank you. Bet you weren't expecting that, huh? All of the teasing, pointing, name calling and laughing made me who I am today. What you did was not right or OK by any means. How you acted was childish and cruel, but it made me who I am today. I am stronger because of you. I know how not to treat other people because of you. You taught me a lot, and back then I didn't even realize it. I'm sure you did it for a reason, a reason that I am unaware of to this very day. Whatever the reason may be you need to know that taking your problems out on other people is not acceptable.

I spent countless hours crying, thinking, "Why me?" or "What did I do to deserve this?" but then one day it hit me, the problem is you. Because of your problems you tortured me into thinking I was a loser, fat and not good enough. I look back on those days and think how strong I was to have endured that. Yes, bullying is not a new issue in today's world - but that doesn't make it OK by any means. But as a child I was confused, I thought something was wrong with me when it was the exact opposite. You have made me realize that because I am different I am beautiful, and now I see that all too clearly.

Fortunately I am at a place in my life where I am grateful for every day. I now see the beauty in my flaws and differences. I have come to terms with you and have put those horrible memories to rest in my mind. Honestly, sometimes those memories come up now and again, but I wouldn't be who I am today without them. Those memories keep me humble and having compassion for those who are suffering. However, some of your victims might not feel the exact same way. If you're reading this, I want you to know that your ignorance was a blessing in disguise to me. Your teasing made me realize how much potential I have, and how far I have come. However, it might be someone else's downfall one day. Don't lash out on other people due to your lack of empathy and compassion towards others.

I hope you have seen the error in your ways and you have changed for the better. I know that I have. I hope this letter finds you well and you are doing better emotionally. Because if it’s one thing you taught me is to be strong. You gave me a lesson that I will never forget. You shaped me to be more understanding, compassionate and accepting of other people. And for that I thank you.

Sincerely,

Not Your Victim