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An Open Letter To My High School Bullies

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."

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An Open Letter To My High School Bullies

To the girls who bullied me in high school,

Thank you. I never thought that there would be a day when I would hear myself say those words. I have become such a strong individual thanks to you all. All those days when I walked with my head down in the hallway, did my work in the guidance office, and begged my mom to home school me, paid off. I am now going into my senior year of college thanks to you. I never thought I would have the strength, guidance, or will-power to complete such amazing accomplishments.

You taught me how to see the best in everyone, even if it was hard. You showed me that I can be different and it not be a huge deal. Now I embrace the fact that I'm different, and I'm glad I don't conform to what society wants me to be. I can now be myself because I know people will love me for who I actually am. I'm not ashamed to be silly, laugh loud, and be my own individual. I can walk around campus and not feel like I am judged, because I do not worry what other people think of me.

I love my family even more, and turn to them when I am struggling. I know I have people who will help me through the tough times, listen, and support me. I don't have to worry about people making life harder. I have you to thank for that. I found a support system that works and I found out how important my family really is. No matter where life takes you, your family will always be by your side, and that is something that can never be taken away.

I learned how valuable life is. I realize that I am blessed to be on this earth, and enjoy all the beautiful things that life has to offer and now I can truly embrace them. Before, I took things for granted and hung my head when times were tough. I now know that they will pass, and better things are yet to come. Although everyday might not go as planned, I try to start the day on a positive note and understand that it is a blessing to be able to breathe the fresh air.


I see the good in everyday and start my day by knowing that the glass is always half-full. Life isn't always going to go my way, and people are going to hurt me again. But now I know that I have such a strong support system, I have faith, and I remind myself that things can only go up. So I thank each and every one of you for making me the person I am today. My skin is tougher, my smile is larger, and I'm a happier individual. Thank you to the people in these pictures for helping me through these times. I'm forever grateful.

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