Dear Whoever Decides to Love Me,

This is the chance to get advice, look at the world in my eyes, and see what love means to me. Trust me you’ll need it because you’re going to be the one who puts up with me the most, the person who deals with my insanity, and the person who at the end of the day can say “I’m proud of you” with your great smile.

When you first catch a glimpse of me you’ll notice my dorky laugh and smile, which will catch your attention. You’ll be wondering “who’s this beauty?” without realizing that one day you’re going to love me. We’ll eventually go out on a date or hangout, where you will notice I love food and seeing the world in a completely different prospective. After the first few dates, you’ll question yourself on why you keep considering on coming and seeing me; you’ll watch me grow to be comfortable around you, trust you, and make sure you feel like you’re the only one in the world.

After a few months/years that you stick around, I know that you’ll be able to handle me. Usually if someone can stick around for months, a few years it means that they can handle your craziness. You’ll stick around long enough to know, I’m energetic, always happy, and a big pain in your Maximus behind; you’ll notice that you’ll annoy me the way I annoy you. If you decide to deal with all my craziness, honey you’ll be able to deal with my attitude. I’m snappy, loud, and very well-announced; you’ll come to love how truthful I am, yet it will always make you very mad at me.

I’ll keep myself quiet in the times where I know I should, where you just need someone to be next to you and hold you. I’ll make sure you’re doing just fine; I won’t bother you and question what’s wrong. I’m going to be the type to listen and hear you out, where I can get a basic understanding of what’s going on in that pretty mind and figure out how you feel. I won’t say it, but I promise to stick by you in your darkest hours; you’ll notice it when the time comes.

One day I’ll bring up the big life questions that either makes the relationship stronger or weaker. If you do decide to love me, it will make us stronger, but it will also help us figure out the next steps in our lives. I’ll tell you I want a dog, kids, and beautiful home with a backyard for our children (If we decide to have any). I’m going to be the person you look at when you come home and make you forget about how long of a day you had, how much anger you held in will be released, and I'll sit you down to a dinner you've been waiting for all day. You’ll notice my crazy needs and wants of how I want our house set up and decorated for our family.

Darling you’re going to be the person who looks me in the eyes at the end of the day and say “I love you”, where it won’t be just a phrase you say, but something you mean entirely in this world. I’ll make sure you mean it the way I do. We will live up to the expectations we made for our relationship and fight against every obstacle we face as a couple. You’re going to be the person who loves me for my dedication, interesting personality, and for seeing the world a way you never thought someone like me would.

So to whoever loves me, I wish you luck in the future and I hope you’re ready for the bumpiest roller-coaster ride of your life. I will for certainty drive you crazy, but no matter what it will be the crazy you miss if you haven't seen it in awhile. Whoever you are, I'm ready for you when the time comes.