An Open Letter To My Big Sister | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Entertainment

An Open Letter To My Big Sister

Fate Forced Us to be Friends

23
An Open Letter To My Big Sister

I know you secretly hated me when I was born. No, it wasn't really a secret-we have it on camera.

Truly, you looked as if you were plotting to get rid of me. I could see it in your little eyes. I mean, I don't really blame you. You had to share mom and dad's attention now. And let's be honest here: who's cuter? A baby or a two and a half year old? Obviously a baby.

But, I bet you didn't know what was in store. I bet you had no idea that in just a few short years, we would be riding the bus to school together. I bet you had no idea that we would trick or treat together and have a competition to see who could get the most candy (I usually won. Again, who's cuter and gets more candy? A six year old or an eight and a half year old? Obviously the six year old).

You had no idea that a few years later, you would switch schools and I would miss seeing you in the hallways and telling my friends "That's my sister, Sarah! Isn't she a super cool fourth grader?" We had no clue that we wouldn't go to school together ever again. We had no idea that we would fight over every little tiny thing, even Harry Potter books and who gets to read them first.

There's some things I couldn't have guessed either. I couldn't have guessed that you would be the first one I call when I get a job, or have a crush, or just want to chat. When mom and dad visit campus, I always ask if you can come. I couldn't have guessed that I would have hated being an only child when you moved in your freshman year of college.

You know me better than I know myself. Maybe it's because we fight like cats and dogs vying for the last piece of food. Maybe it's because we've spent an abundance of time together. Maybe it's because fate forced us to be friends. Maybe it's because we overshare information. But I wouldn't want it any other way.

I couldn't have asked for a better support system. You may hate dance recitals and musicals, but you still make every effort to come to almost every show you can. And sometimes you even agree to watch a musical with me every once in a while. I bet I could even make you adore Hamilton. Maybe.

All and all, I have two words for you: thank you. Thank you for liking my Instagram posts when they haven't gotten any likes yet. Thank you for telling me if my outfit looks okay. Thank you for giving me life advice. Thank you for making me laugh and always being a kid with me. Thank you for understanding.

They say you can't pick your family. But I got pretty darn lucky with you.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Mays Island
Courtney Jones

Today I started my third week of college at Minnesota State Moorhead. I have survived welcome week, finding my classes on the first day, and being an awkward loner in the dining hall. Even though I have yet to be here for a month, I have already experienced many thoughts and problems that only a new college student can relate to.

Keep Reading...Show less
college

"Make sure to get involved when you're in college!"

We've all heard some variation of this phrase, whether it came from parents, other family members, friends, RAs, or college-related articles. And, like many clichés, it's true for the most part. Getting involved during your college years can help you make friends, build your resume, and feel connected to your campus. However, these commitments can get stressful if you're dealing with personal issues, need to work, or aren't sure how to balance classes and everything else going on during the semester.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

9 Reasons Why Friends Are Essential In College

College without friends is like peanut butter without jelly.

827
Bridgaline Liberati and friends
Bridgaline Liberati

In college, one of the essential things to have is friends. Yes, textbooks, a laptop, and other school supplies are important but friends are essential. Friends are that support system everybody needs. The more friends you have the better the support system you have. But you also have someone to share experiences with. And don’t settle for just one or two friends because 8 out of 10 times they are busy and you are studying all alone. Or they have other friend groups that do not include you. Don’t settle for just one or two friends; make as many friends as you can. After the first couple of weeks of college, most friend groups are set and you may be without friends.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

The Power of Dressing Up

Why it pays to leave the hoodie at home.

653
sneakers and heels
Sister | Brother Style - Word Press

For a moment your world is spinning. The phone alarm has just scared you awake and you’re flooded by daunting thoughts of the day ahead. You have three assignments due and little time to work on them because of your job. You’re running late because you’ve hit snooze one to many times after yesterday’s long hours. You dizzily reach for a hoodie, craving its comfort, and rush for a speedy exit, praying you will have time to pick up coffee. Does this sound familiar?

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

11 Signs You Live At The Library As Told by 'Parks And Recreation'

A few signs that you may live in the library whether you'd like to admit it or not.

598
brown wooden book shelves with books

Finals week is upon us. It is a magical time of year during which college students everywhere flock to the library in attempt to learn a semester's worth of knowledge in only a week. For some students, it's their first time in the library all semester, maybe ever. Others have slaved away many nights under the fluorescent lights, and are slightly annoyed to find their study space being invaded by amateurs. While these newbies wander aimlessly around the first floor, hopelessly trying to find a table, the OGs of the library are already on the third floor long tables deep into their studies. Here is a few signs that you may live in the library, whether you'd like to admit it or not.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments