Dear little girl,

It's nice to still see that sparkle in your eyes. I wish that you could keep that for the rest of your life, but none of us really get to. I know you're busy playing outside with your friends and enjoying school, but I need to tell you some things to get you through your life. It's very important, so don't get distracted now.

Don't try to grow up and be a teenager too fast because these will be the best days of your life. You won't have many rules, homework will still be fun, and you can get away with a ton of things. Save the makeup and high heels for high school dances and events. Enjoy not having to worry about a job and money and appreciate what toys you already have rather than think about the toys you want.

Can you do me a favor and try to wait awhile before you start going boy crazy? They won't really matter until you're in college, and dating early will only bring you immense heartache. That boy you have a crush on in class won't be someone you'll still be friends with in high school. And yes, you'll be going to college. But don't worry about it now. I know you'll be changing your mind about what you'd like to do quite a lot. So don't let the opinions of others affect what you decide to do. Do you still want to live a double life as a pop star? Go for it! How about be a vet for all of the sick puppies and kittens? Take a chance and live your dreams — not society's dreams for you.

Speaking of society, please don't read those fashion magazines with the weight loss tips in it or listen to their views of perfection. You are perfect just the way you are. Don't watch TV with your mom and see her wishing to be like those in her favorite shows, because that is not how you should be influenced. What you see on TV is not what real life is like. You will find someone who loves you for your flaws, I promise. Continue watching the Disney Channel and learning from the character's mistakes. Watch it as long as you please.

Darling, if you ever feel like less of a person because of what people tell you, just remember: they say it to feel better about themselves. Don't let them get to you. Don't feel the pressure to be perfect or have the perfect life... because you won't. And if you want to befriend people who aren't "popular," do it. Do anything and everything you want. Don't let your fears stop you from living your life and live without regrets.

Sincerely,

You.