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I Am Single And I'm Ok With That

Be your own source of happiness.

Katie schwartz
Dec 13, 2016
Emporia State University
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I Am Single And I'm Ok With That

Everybody always asks me why i don't have a boyfriend and I usually give the same general answer; I'm not ready. I am single by choice. I am happy with my life now and I don't feel that I am ready to make a change. I keep myself busy and I enjoy my freedom.

In today's world it feels like everyone feels the need to rush into relationships and never takes time for themselves. I will admit I used to think this way. I always though I needed to be in a relationship to be happy with myself, but I learned something. I actually don't. Being single has been a journey for me and I have learned many things.

I do not want to feel that I need somebody because i want to feel whole on my own. I want to be with someone purely because they enhance my life more rather than feeling like I cannot exist without them. I want to be with someone that brings out the best qualities in me and pushes me to be a better me. I am willing to wait to meet the right person because I am not settling in life anymore. So, In the meantime fine I have faith that my time will come.

I am working on myself still, and I have to put me first. I am young and I want to have fun and find someone who will make every day an adventure. I know my guy is out there somewhere and someday our paths will cross. However, for now I will work to better myself.

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