It's finally here. The biggest moment of your life. Well of course behind seeing Beyonce in a Starbuck's and the birth of your first child (in that exact order). Graduation. After four years of: "Is this the right scantron," or "That was due yesterday," and "We have a test today?" you can finally breathe a little easier knowing that you don't have a 500 word essay, two critical analysis, a case study, and quiz due the next day. After 16 years of being in the institutionalized education system, it's time to put on your big kid pants, take the world by storm, and let the world know you've arrived. Graduation is a mile marker for the transition into true adulthood. It's way more than just a dance across a platform, it's a symbol verifying your goals and values, Its a monument of your success, and a stepping stone to an unlimited amount of opportunities. Yet, after long nights and even longer days, some people walk across that stage without even the slightest clue as to what's next in life. That's completely alright. There is no rule, permanently etched anywhere into the cobblestone of campus that says you have to know where you're going directly after graduation. Whether you decide to stay home and figure out how to more quickly secure your ranking as a millionaire, work to save up to ensure a good foundation as an adult, or jump right into your chosen career path, as long as you're happy, that is all that matters. Nothing is permanent and we are bound to change our minds. Our 20's are a time of discovery and adventure. Stay up late and regret it, pull an all-nighter during finals, or take a road trip with your best friends. It is now that we are finally past that awkward stage in life where we wore suspenders and had our moms drop us off at the mall. We are no longer restricted (this includes our wardrobe choices as well). We now have freedom, and along with it knowledge and more wisdom than what we started with. We may not always make the right decision but that's expected. We thrive and survive on experience. So don't fear the future. Don't be afraid of failure. College, instilling values such as sacrifice and ambition into us, has more than prepared us for what's to come. So when you're at your post-graduation dinner and man-child cousin gives you the third degree on your "after graduation plans," smile and don't be ashamed to say that you genuinely don't know. Take your time in deciding because you have fought the good fight, you have run the race, and the world is now your oyster.
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Luckily, many colleges offer a number of ways to take part in campus and community life, without forcing you to dedicate all of your time to these organizations. Here are a few ideas!
1. Look into Housing and Dining.
Many first-year students start off college life in residence halls, and the Housing & Dining network throughout campus often provides multiple opportunities for students throughout the year. Many buildings have student community councils that work to create policies and events that make the dorms a more welcoming home for residents. Becoming a community assistant (or the students who work the desks at the front of many halls) is another easy way to have a consistent, well-paying job only minutes away from your room.
If you really enjoyed your housing experience, consider applying to be an RLA, or, if the school offers it, help to teach the first-year community. You'll get the chance to help support new and returning students over the year, and many of these positions also cover major costs like board and meal plans.
2. Pay attention to campus postings.
This advice is more obvious, but it still gets overlooked a fair amount. Even on a busy day, taking the time to stop around campus and look at the flyers advertising clubs and events can draw your attention to something that you never would've noticed otherwise. Students on many campuses also chalk the sidewalk to catch students' attention while they walk to class. Just make sure that the event you're interested in hasn't taken place already!
3. Find common interest groups.
One way to find friends and get involved is to focus on what you're passionate about. Have you always loved to sing? Do you enjoy playing video games? Is photography your favorite past-time? Have you always wanted to join Greek life? Whatever you love devoting your time to, chances are there are organizations around school who are focused on the same thing. Check the student life section of your university's website, or stop by a student organization fair at the beginning of the semester.
4. Join an intramural sports team.
If you're the athletic type, you've probably heard of intramural sports. Often offered through the Rec Center or the residence halls, most colleges often offer various indoor and outdoor sports to take part in throughout the year. Personal favorite? Mini golf.
5. Work on a cause that you care about.
Whether you're passionate about a political group, a social cause, or a religion, working with people who value beliefs similar to yours can be an easy way to meet people, get a better sense of your own identity, and promote causes that are important to you. Look into getting involved with College Democrats, Republicans, or whatever party that you belong to. Find a club that supports social issues, from women's rights to protecting the environment. If you're religious, look into student organizations based on your faith.
6. Join a club related to your major.
Even if you're not entirely sure what you want to do after school, finding a club or organization related to your field of studies can benefit you long after you leave the classroom. From career-related workshops to conferences to professional connections, these groups have a lot to boast.
7. Get an on-campus job.
If you have the time, need to work, or want to save a few extra dollars, finding a job on or near campus is a time-effective way to build up your bank account and gain work experience. Check in your residence hall (see #1), at local businesses and offices, or make an appointment with your school's career center.
8. Volunteer.
When you're caught up in school life, it can be hard to think about the bigger picture. Volunteering your time to people (or animals/an environment) in need puts things in perspective and allows you to feel good while making a positive difference. Check if your college town has a volunteer page, or look up local organizations requesting help.
Best of luck this year! Get out, and get busy.
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