If you are a rising college freshman, I just want to start off by saying that you are a pretty tough cookie. This year has been full of a lot of disappointments, but there is still hope as you enter this new chapter and fresh start in your life. Although your first year of college may not be the "traditional" or "normal" experience, it will be unique to you. Make the most of the opportunities available to you and find ways to optimize what you are handed.
Having just gone through my first year of college, I can say that I've learned a lot from the positive, the negative, and the mistakes. Things will look very different this academic year too. Here is my advice:
1. Take Classes Seriously
Even though you may have some classes online, some on a rotation schedule, or some in-person, show up physically and mentally. Most likely you will be taking core classes during your first year, which is good considering the current situation. However, strive to do your best in these classes. It will both boost your GPA and give you a firm foundation for whatever the future may hold. Try to participate in class, get to know your professors, and ask questions!
2. Use Your Resources
There are a multitude of resources available to college students. If they are there, why not use them? If you have a good academic advisor, meet with them at least once or twice a semester and let them help you with any questions about majors, courses, programs, or college life in general. If you need help resolving a conflict or someone to listen to you if you are stressed, RAs and CAs are there for you in the halls. The Career Center is good for mock interviews and career advice. Tutoring is offered in various subjects, and there are even writing labs if you need an essay proofed. Use your resources!
3. Put Yourself Out There
When I first moved to my college, one of the first things that I noticed was how different the people and interactions were from high school. From my experience, college students are a lot more open, friendly, and kind to newcomers. College is a social place, and while it is hard to imagine what this year will look like, social distancing does not mean that you can't be social. You can still make an effort to meet people, engage in hall programs, and have safe interactions. Don't be afraid to join zoom hangouts and other online social events too!
4. Remember That You Are Not Alone
A lot of people will be in the exact same boat as you. Although it may seem like it at times, you are not alone with your feelings in this transition! It's ok to have questions. A lot of people do, and there are people to help. It's ok if you don't make friends or find a friend group right away. A lot of people don't, and friendship takes time. Remember that you are a part of a big, strong community!
5. Follow Guidelines and Be Considerate
There are people working really hard to plan for the reopening of college campuses. They've spent months coming up with creative solutions, procedures, and structures in order to help keep the student and staff populations safe. Be mature, respect their time, and do your part to not only keep yourself safe, but others safe as well. It's an individual and group effort!
-M
