I always thought the idea of being sensitive was almost an insult. Hearing comments such as "You're weak," or just the simple words of, "You're way too sensitive" would hurt. But as I grew older I began to appreciate my sensitivity.
For the most part, I believed everyone always took everything to heart. But as I got older and faced different situations, I learned that this was not true. A lot of people don't get crushed by the idea of disappointing someone or vice versa. Some people are very neutral when facing conflict, some simply don't care and some just lash out.
But at this point in my life, I have learned how to appreciate my sensitivity for many reasons.
I feel my emotions very deeply. Although this may seem like an issue when dealing with difficult emotions, it means I feel the good stuff in life more deeply. Being sensitive also taught me that I see a lot of things others don't. Meaning, I can embrace new concepts deeply as well.
Personally, the best concept being sensitive has taught me is the practice of self-care. As a sensitive person, a lot of things get to you rather easily, but understanding the necessity of self-care is beautiful. You learn how to prioritize your needs and what really works best for you emotionally.
So, if you can relate to this article and have a hard time admitting it: Take your time. But don't be afraid to acknowledge the way you were born. Even as a male, it is OK to accept being sensitive. It's not an insult, but rather something beautiful.