A Letter To My Younger Self | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post

A Letter To My Younger Self

Go a little easier on yourself, please

16
A Letter To My Younger Self
Photo by Debby Hudson on Unsplash

Hey kid,

You made me into the person that I am today. All your decisions, actions, and lessons learned shaped me into who I am today. I am stronger, smarter, and better because of everything you've done for me. I'm so grateful for you, but, come on, you deserve better. I deserve better.

You're a perfectionist. I get that. You still are, to this day. That is perfectly okay; nothing is wrong with that. But you're spending so much time on the small things, you're not looking at the bigger picture. That one sentence isn't going to change the letter grade on your essay, one wrong note won't kick you from a superior to an excellent. Everything is a lot better than you think it is, trust me. You're good at a lot of things you do, but you don't have to be good at everything.

Just because she's pretty doesn't mean you're not pretty. Sunflowers look completely different from fairy lights, but they're both beautiful things. Beauty is all around us, all around you. More importantly, beauty is inside of you. Let your actions be kind-hearted, let your thoughts be good-willed, and let your smile shine brightly. Let your ideas and acceptance be the most beautiful thing about you.

Yes, you are beautiful. But you're so much more than that. You're smart, innovative, kind, caring. You have so much more to offer this world. You are going to change the world, but you can't do that if you don't have the confidence. Be confident. Be confident in yourself and your actions. Grab your future by the collar. You'll thank yourself later. Heck, I'll thank you now.

Little me, I've grown a lot since you. I know I'm writing this to tell you to change, but the truth is, I don't know if I would be the way that I am if you'd taken this advice. I guess what I'm trying to say is, you are going to be who you are, regardless of anything else. Try to love that person. You're going to be stuck with yourself for the rest of your life.

Love,

Yourself

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Student Life

A Few Thoughts Every College Freshman Has

The transition into adulthood is never easy

14892
Mays Island
Courtney Jones

Today I started my third week of college at Minnesota State Moorhead. I have survived welcome week, finding my classes on the first day, and being an awkward loner in the dining hall. Even though I have yet to be here for a month, I have already experienced many thoughts and problems that only a new college student can relate to.

Keep Reading...Show less
Students walking on a sunny college campus with trees and buildings.

"Make sure to get involved when you're in college!"

We've all heard some variation of this phrase, whether it came from parents, other family members, friends, RAs, or college-related articles. And, like many clichés, it's true for the most part. Getting involved during your college years can help you make friends, build your resume, and feel connected to your campus. However, these commitments can get stressful if you're dealing with personal issues, need to work, or aren't sure how to balance classes and everything else going on during the semester.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

9 Reasons Why Friends Are Essential In College

College without friends is like peanut butter without jelly.

6464
Bridgaline Liberati and friends
Bridgaline Liberati

In college, one of the essential things to have is friends. Yes, textbooks, a laptop, and other school supplies are important but friends are essential. Friends are that support system everybody needs. The more friends you have the better the support system you have. But you also have someone to share experiences with. And don’t settle for just one or two friends because 8 out of 10 times they are busy and you are studying all alone. Or they have other friend groups that do not include you. Don’t settle for just one or two friends; make as many friends as you can. After the first couple of weeks of college, most friend groups are set and you may be without friends.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

The Power of Dressing Up

Why it pays to leave the hoodie at home.

4777
sneakers and heels
Sister | Brother Style - Word Press

For a moment your world is spinning. The phone alarm has just scared you awake and you’re flooded by daunting thoughts of the day ahead. You have three assignments due and little time to work on them because of your job. You’re running late because you’ve hit snooze one to many times after yesterday’s long hours. You dizzily reach for a hoodie, craving its comfort, and rush for a speedy exit, praying you will have time to pick up coffee. Does this sound familiar?

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

11 Signs You Live At The Library As Told by 'Parks And Recreation'

A few signs that you may live in the library whether you'd like to admit it or not.

4206
brown wooden book shelves with books

Finals week is upon us. It is a magical time of year during which college students everywhere flock to the library in attempt to learn a semester's worth of knowledge in only a week. For some students, it's their first time in the library all semester, maybe ever. Others have slaved away many nights under the fluorescent lights, and are slightly annoyed to find their study space being invaded by amateurs. While these newbies wander aimlessly around the first floor, hopelessly trying to find a table, the OGs of the library are already on the third floor long tables deep into their studies. Here is a few signs that you may live in the library, whether you'd like to admit it or not.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments