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Dating a Queen

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When You're Dating a Queen

First things first, what is a " Queen"? A Queen is a woman that knows who she is, what she wants, and what's important in her life. She lives for herself, not because she is selfish but because she is aware of the reality that no one will take care of her as well as she can take care of herself. She is passionate about her own success and makes sure to keep ALL of her relationships healthy. She's not quick to fall in love, she doesn't waste her time, and she only bothers with people who treats her exactly how she wants to be treated. Not to be confused with the uneducated girl taking turns between posting nonsense and "thirst trapping" on social media, addicted to likes and messages from strangers who are trying to "Netflix and Chill." A Queen does not need attention from anyone besides the people she knows who love her. Most men cannot handle her, it takes a man of integrity, confidence, and patience to win her. If you're not used to this type of woman, here's a heads up.

Her World Does Not Revolve Around You

This is essential. Every man says he wants a woman that "has her own" and she is exactly that. Not only does she have her own money, but she has her own obligations. She has friends she needs to be there for, family to support, a career to work for, along with her body and mind to keep maintained. So don't get butt-hurt if she's off work and declines your invitation to get a drink because she's tired. It takes a lot of energy to work as hard as she does. Instead of your pride taking a blow because she turned you down, be proud of the fact that she is passionate and knows how to balance her time. Be her support system, not an insecure, cry baby who throws a fit whenever she's doing things other than being with you.

She Does Not Rush Into Relationships

She knows better than to call herself your girlfriend a week after you've matched on Tinder. She takes relationships very seriously and has the most caution when letting somebody in. She doesn't jump in and out of a relationship every couple of months. She's happy being by herself so there's never a "need" to have a man. Accept that she doesn't need you, she wants you. So don't expect her to share her time with you, be happy that she chose to spend time with you versus spending it doing something else. Time is her most valuable asset.

Don't Play Yourself

She knows her worth. When you know you're worth, you never tolerate something that you want no part of. Doing f*$& boy $#!%, like lying or disrespecting her is a sure way to make her forget about you. Her time will not be wasted in the company of a fool or a fake.

Patience Is A Must

It took time for her to become the kind of woman most want to be. So naturally, she's stuck in her ways. Be prepared to compromise a lot. Everyone will change if you respectfully and logically explain why one decision is better than the next. At the same time, don't be afraid to challenge her. Only the Alpha male can handle the Alpha female.

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