For most people, family plays a huge role in their lives, I know mine does. As time goes on, we lose some of our loved ones. Almost losing my dad was a huge wake-up call for me. After that day, I never passed up a chance to tell my dad I loved him. When I lost my grandpa Guillermo I was blessed with the chance to tell him I loved him one last time. Recently my uncle had a heart attack, being that my uncle was a healthy 44-year-old man, it came as a shock to the whole family. The ambulance did get to him in time to help him and my uncle lived, for that I could not be grateful enough. All of these events happening in my life made me open my eyes and really appreciate the moments I am able to spend with my loved ones. Here are nine things I make sure to say to them every day

1. "I’m glad you’re here."

We all have busy lives, so anytime your cousin, uncle or even your best friend decides to stop by for a visit make sure to tell them that you’re glad they did, because it makes a difference.

2. "I’m here for you."

Family and friends are supposed to stick together. We all need someone to lean on and it is important for your loved ones to know you’re there for them.

3. "I’ve been thinking about you."

Anytime someone crosses my mind, I make sure to tell them so they know they aren’t forgotten about. The minute my grandma pops into my head I make sure to give her a call.

4. "Let’s go do something."

Spending time with the people you love is important. Make that effort to spend time with them because a lot of people don’t get that.

5. "I missed you."

It’s okay to let your loved ones know that you miss when they’re not around. It shows that they matter to you.

6. "Be safe/drive safe."

Remind them to take care of themselves because you love them dearly.

7. "Let me know when you’re home safely."

So this one isn’t necessarily a must, but anytime a friend or family member leaves I tell them to let me know when they’re home safely because that makes me feel better knowing they’re safe. Saying this is more for me then it is for them.

9. "I love you."

Never pass up an opportunity to tell your loved ones you love them because you never know when that’ll be the last time.