9 Things You Hate About Relationships Until You're In One | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

9 Things You Hate About Relationships Until You're In One

Sometimes one person can change your whole outlook on life.

222
9 Things You Hate About Relationships Until You're In One
ihdimages.com

Cuffing season is among us. If you aren't aware of the term, cuffing season means a time during the winter when new relationships start. "Cuffing" means you're tied down to someone. When you're single, it seems like everyone else around you isn't. It's like nearly ever person that you pass on the street is holding hands with someone else. Sometimes it's just annoying because you kind of wish that you had someone's hand to hold. Other times it's just nauseating to see two people who are so crazy about each other. That is until you get in a relationship yourself. Then you slowly start to realize that you are becoming everything you used to complain about. You are doing all the puppy love things that used to make you nauseated. You kind of hate yourself for it, but you also don't mind it.

1. Hand holding.

When you were single it seemed like every time you went out in public you saw an excessive amount of couples holding hands. It used to annoy you so much, but now you find that you love hand holding and actually always do it.

2. Kissing in public.

Everywhere. All the time. You saw couples kissing and complained about how unnecessary kissing in public was. Now, you do it all the time and love it.

3. When someone constantly brings up their significant other.

Before you started dating you used to complain about people who always did this. Now, you do it unapologetically because the person you're dating makes you so happy. You ignore the fact that you are always bragging about them.

4. Anything sentimental or mushy.

You used to hate those romance movies and didn't find them sweet or adorable. But now, you can appreciate them and sometimes actually enjoy the corny and mushy stuff.

5. Being cute and lovey in front of other people.

That longing and adorable look couples give each other used to be something you would turn away from if you saw it. Now, you love the nose kisses and longing looks, even if other people are looking.

6. Annoying nicknames.

Kitten. Bunny. Babe. Baby. Sweetie. Cupcake. Love Muffin. All of them used to annoy you. You vowed never to use them on your significant other or let them use them on you, but that didn't last long.

7. Cuddling and touching all the time.

You used to never be able to see yourself wanting to cuddle or find excuses to touch another person. But sometimes finding the right person changes that.

8. Posting about each other on social media excessively.

Frequent status updates on relationships and posting couple selfies were the worst before you started dating someone.

9. Being so head over heels for your significant other.

Constantly smiling at your phone. Smiling when something reminds you of them. Butterflies in your stomach. All things that you couldn't stand... until you met your significant other.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Vivien Leigh
Revelist

I've lived a whole 21 years with an RBF (Resting Bitch Face), so naturally, I go through most of these struggles on a daily basis.

And before you ask, yes I'm fine. No, I'm not mad. This is just my face, so take it or leave it! To those of you who have been #blessed with an RBF, you'll probably relate to these more than you'd like to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Iconic Duos: Timeless Legends

From Luke and Leia to Beyonce's twins...

774500
Luke and Leia from Star Wars, a iconic duo
Lucasfilm

“Name a more iconic duo... I'll wait." OK, well, if you insist. In no particular order, here's a list of 100 iconic duos that seem to be timeless.

SEE MORE: This Is The ICONIC Disney Sidekick You Are To Your BFF, According To Your Zodiac Sign

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

A Candid Letter to My Best Friends Ex

Because this is the real form of torture you deserve.

233
middle finger
Photo by engin akyurt on Unsplash

What's up Asshat,

I've composed a list of things that I wish upon you, and they're harsh and cruel. These things are things that I wouldn't wish upon my worst of enemies, not even that Starbuck's barista who always screws up my order, not even him. You fall into a whole other category of hate. You surpass Starbucks barista. Congratulations, I'm actually a pretty nice person, making you worthy of every single bit of torture I wish upon you. What are these things I wish upon you you might ask?

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

College Life: As Told By Bob's Burgers

If there's anyone who understand the struggles of college, it's the Belcher family

917
Bob's Burgers

College is a time of gaining independence, exploring new things, and copious amounts of Netflix. If you're like me, you often find yourself laughing at the sheer ridiculousness of the situations you find yourself in. Here are ten times Bob's Burgers accurately captured college life.

1. What you're pretty sure your upstairs neighbors do at 3am every morning.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Why Theater Kids Are the Greatest People Ever

Supportive and spontaneous human beings are the best.

687
Theater Kids

Throughout school, the theater department has always been my go-to place with go-to people when I need advice, a dance party, or just someone to listen to me vent.

You never know what's going to happen when you're dealing with theatre or what kind of characters you'll encounter. We have too much fun doing anything! One time in my senior year acting class, we spent an entire class period watching Bob's Burgers, and it was the greatest class period ever.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments