As my second semester of college comes to a close, I have been reflecting on my first and second semester antics, mistakes, successes, and realizations. Here are eight things that are important to reflect on as you procrastinate studying for finals:

1. How You Have Changed:

Throughout my first year of college, I have noticed that I have grown into my authentic self. Before I came to Stony Brook, I was extremely passive, timid, and solely focused on my school work. However, from the day I moved into my residence hall, I promised myself that this year would be different; I would express my thoughts, and embrace who I am. As a result, I have been able to come to terms with my sexuality, bond openly with others, and express what I think. Even though not all freshmen go through this stage, it is important to reflect how your college experience has impacted your mental health, self-growth, and personal goals.

2. Did you make the right choice:

Even though I was definite that I would attend Stony Brook University in March 2016, all freshmen go through a phase of wondering if they made the right decision. During my first semester, I knew that this university was the right fit for me, however, I did and still do have my moments of “What if I went to another school?” “Am I guaranteed a job from this school?” and the list goes on. However, by the end of the first year, you should be sure that you are 100% in love with your university. If not, take the time now to see your options before it becomes too late.

3. Your adventures:

Despite some students being more reclusive and study-oriented, all students experience some sort of antics throughout their first year. For me, one of the biggest highlights of my second semester of college was when my friends and I walked a total of six miles to a tattoo shop in the middle of nowhere during the winter to get my second tattoo. Even if you did not do something as nearly as sporadic as that, the small moments count too. Whether it is going to your roommate's favorite restaurant, finding that secret spot on campus to study, or pulling an all-nighter in the lounge; moments like these are the ones you will cherish forever. Be proud of the people you have met, and the memories you have made because you will never get this year back.

4. Your mistakes:

As I mentioned before, we all made mistakes, socially and academically, during our first year of college. For me, my biggest mistakes include trying to diversify myself by studying material outside of my comfort zone, not sleeping enough, not eating healthy, and drinking too much caffeine. Even though that one class has ripped me to shreds, my exhaustion has caught up to me, and my habits need to change, the cliche phrase “learn from your mistakes” holds true. I now know what I need to work on, and how to prepare myself for the future. The mistake itself is not important, it is the lesson that you take from it that will matter in the end. Try to incorporate this lesson into your second-semester experience.

5. Your biggest successes:

Contrary to your biggest mistakes, we all have obviously had multiple successes. It can range from doing well on that one exam you studied tirelessly for, finally earning your letters for your fraternity/sorority, becoming more involved on campus, or achieving your personal goals. In my case, my biggest success was receiving an RA position, and being hired as a TA at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology over the upcoming summer. Regardless of what it is, just be proud of yourself for what you have achieved, and do not worry about what you did not get.

6. Do you like your major:

To be honest, it is a little late to determine this because you have completed anywhere from 24-40 credits throughout your first two semesters. However, there is a small window of hope left. Over the summer, you need to finalize your decision to be able to graduate on time. Personally, I knew that I would be continuing my French and Spanish studies in college because that is where my true interest is found. On the other side, I have decided to continue with my business major as well because it provides me with an outlook on the global market.

7. Your future:

This is probably one of the most exciting, yet frightening topics that need to be discussed at the end of your first year of college. Even though graduation may seem far off, it is right around the corner. This is the time in which you need to be able to envision yourself in the future and develop the path to achieve what you want. You do not need to figure out which company, position, and time frame you want. However, it is important to think about whether or not you need to attend graduate school, if you will take a gap year, or if you intend to study abroad. Do not get overwhelmed. Just take it one step at a time, and it will all fall into place.

8. Relationships:

I am not solely talking about romantic relationships, but platonic ones also. Think about those who have had your back through thick and thin; no matter what hour of the night, situation, or emotions they might have had at the moment. Who truly cares about you? If you have not had a romantic relationship yet, do not worry about it. It will come when you are ready for it. If you had an ex during your first year of college, think about what you did wrong, and what the other person did wrong. Recognizing your faults is the most important thing, however, learn from them, and do not dwell on the past.

Overall, your experience throughout your first year of college will follow you for the rest of your life. Recognize who you are, what you want, and how you can improve yourself for the future. The most important thing is to look forward to what your sophomore year has in store.