We all probably know someone who is the "mom" of our friend group. (If you're not aware of this new lingo, Urban Dictionary defines this friend as the "one friend in your squad that's super responsible and almost over-protective of them.")
Maybe you're thinking to yourself, "Sure, I could see myself being that friend, but it just doesn't feel right." In that case, I ask you to consider whether you're the "grandma" of your friend group. What does this entail? These eight signs will give you a pretty clear understanding whether you're the grandma among your friends.
1. You always have the best snacks (especially sweets)
Sure, the "mom" friend always has these too, but yours are even better. You've got the sweet treats that your friends crave after a long day of classes.
2. Or you have the snacks your friends laugh at, even though they eat them anyway
They make fun of your dried fruit and wide selection of nuts, but they eat them every time they visit.
3. Your sense of style may seem "elderly" to others
You love sweaters. You love practical walking shoes. You love "mom" jeans. Don't listen to those who tell you to dress differently, because, unlike them, you are perpetually comfortable.
4. You often reminisce about a time you didn't live through![]()
Your older family members always talk about the good ol' days, so you were pretty much there, too.
5. You often don't understand why people your age do the things they do
Why did that guy just take 20 jello shots? Why are they dancing on a table? Wouldn't they rather be watching Netflix or reading or doing something that doesn't involve procuring a hangover?
6. Your friends tell you to stop taking naps as often as you do
The only way to stay fully rested is to take several short naps throughout the day. Trust me. I think some scientists proved that once.
7. You don't always like the "hip" music
And sometimes you don't even know what it is. (I didn't know "The Life of Pablo" was a thing until very recently, honestly.)
8. You always want photos of you and your friends so you can turn them into a craft/collage later
(Substitute "grandma" for "mama.")
If any of these signs seem familiar to you, here's a news flash: You're probably the "grandma" of your friend group. It's very similar to being the "mom" friend with just a few differences. So, own it and be proud of your status.
