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8 Reasons Why It's OK To Be Single

There's nothing wrong with it.

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8 Reasons Why It's OK To Be Single

Happy couples everywhere. That's how it seems. I know sometimes you may look at cheesy posts on Facebook or Instagram where people are happily in love and although you think you need it, you really don't. For a long time, I tried finding happiness in another person and I realized that happiness starts with myself. So for all of those people out there who are wanting a relationship, keep in mind that you really don't need one and that you're only stressing yourself out for no reason. It's totally OK to be single! Here's why:

1. You Don't Have To Spend All Your Money.

Think of all the money you're saving when you don't have to worry about buying things for another person. Holidays, birthdays, dates; the list can go on. But it adds up quickly! Be happy that you have the extra cash in your pocket.

2. Flirting

You can flirt with whoever you want! It doesn't have to be anything serious and it's fun. See that guy behind the counter at Starbucks? Go bat your eyes and flip your hair. Cause you can!

3. No Heartbreak

Let's be honest, a lot of relationships end. Heartbreak can destroy you beyond repair and even though it's a part of life, you don't need to put yourself through that right now.

4. No Drama

All couples fight. Relationships are never perfect, so there will be problems somewhere down the line. Be it either a small issue or something big, it happens. And when you breakup, forget it. It's even worse. Honey Boo Boo gets it:

5. More Time For Friends And Family

While in a relationship, our friendships with others tend to suffer. I have had friends kick me to the side for a relationship and I am no longer in contact with them. But when you're single, you can make more time for your family and your best friends. Go do something fun!

6. Alone Time

Everyone needs time alone to either think or to just relax. Sit down on the couch in your pj's and watch Netflix or listen to music. With all the craziness that life can bring, it's nice to have time to unwind.

7. Work On Yourself

It's really important to focus on yourself before you are with another person. Get in shape, treat yourself to a pedicure; anything. Always remember, it's important to love yourself first.

8. Learning To Be Independent

Never rely on another person to support you or provide you with happiness. Learning how to be independent is extremely important. Fly on your own for a while and you'll realize just how strong you really are.


Putting all of that aside, someday you will find that person you want. But don't stress too much over it. There is more to life than dating, and it's important to always keep that in mind. So, if you're single, it's okay, because after all, you don't want anyone clipping your wings. Live life and have fun!

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