Having an older brother is more than getting teased for playing with Barbies or laughed at when you wake up with crazy hair. A big brother is a body guard, a role model, and a best friend you'll have forever. Older siblings set the tone for their younger brothers and sisters. My brother has taught me a lifetime of lessons I will pass on to our younger brothers so thank you for these things and so much more.
1. Teaching Me To Laugh At Myself
You're goofy personality has certainly influenced me and the weirdo I have become. I have you to thank for the times I would normally get embarrassed but pretend that whatever quirky thing I have done was on purpose.
2. Making Me Laugh
Not only have you taught me to laugh at myself but you surely give me something to laugh about quite often. You aren't afraid to make a joke at the most inopportune times which are typically the funniest. Family functions are more entertaining because of the jokes you bring.
3. Giving Me Your Honest Opinion
You're opinion matters a lot. Whether it be a boy or a work decision you always tell me like it is and put the sugar coating aside. I respect and appreciate that tremendously. Sometimes we all need someone to set us straight and who better for the job than a big brother?
4. Teaching Me How To Put Myself First
It isn't always easy but with your help I've learned that it is okay to put myself first from time to time. I am learning that I shouldn't feel bad for everyone or make decisions for myself based on anyone but me.
5. Having My Back
Ever since childhood you've always stuck up for me no matter what. In turn, you have even taught me how to stick up for myself. From the playground to adulthood I know you will always have my back.
6. Showing Me How To Think For Myself
Whether it be politics or social trends you have always helped me to come to conclusions on my own.
7. Being My Best Friend
That's right! You'll be one of my best friends for life and there's nothing you can change about that mister! As a little sister, it is a great feeling to be able to confide in and just plain old hang out with my big brother like friends do.
8. Telling Me The Kind Of Boy I Deserve
Lastly but most importantly you've taught me what kind of boy I should be with. You have helped me decide what is important in a boy and what isn't. Through your own relationship you have even showed me how I should be treated. When it comes to who I date, I want you to become friends with this person and I want them to be someone you would like to call a brother of your own one day.
Thank you big brother, for all the little things that are really the big things.