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7 Things I Learned From My Best Friend

Did we just become best friends?!

Bex Briesmaster

Sep 26, 2016

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Did we just become best friends — Brennan Huff - Step Brothers

I would like to think that everyone has got that one special person in their life that they will always put above all else. This person knows you from the inside out, understands your strange eating habits, and will put you in your place if there ever comes a time for the humble stick to be utilized. I am talking about a best friend.

But not your average best friend, I am talking like years-down-the-road best friend. You have put some miles into each other. You have dated many a questionable suitor to their barely there approval, but they will never judge you when it all comes back to bite you in the butt.

I have learned seven things over the course of my ten year friendship with my best friend including about what it takes to be a great best friend.

1) They will always be there to take any photo of you, anytime, anyplace.

They don't have to be nice about it either, but they know that if it is important enough to you, they will always come through and ensure they took at least five for you to chose from.

2) They are up for anything if you are.

Even if that means joining the local beer list when you are on a vacation up north. Your best friend will always be up for any kind of challenge presented and in true competitive spirit, they should always imply a friendly wager.

3) You tend to dress similar after a while.

If I have learned anything from my best friend, it's that half of the time we are going to end up coordinating in some way or another. Hey, at least you can find the other when you are at a huge public outing.

4) You tend to have fail safe activities.

Maybe it's always knowing the other is down to go see a movie, or inviting them to a local spot you both enjoy going to. It's a great way to catch up and do something that you both love!

5) After a while, their family becomes your family.

A new friend always has to invite you to family functions, but a best friend just assumes you are going to be there. Their family is always warm and welcoming whenever you show up at their doorstep. They are ready to laugh, hear about what's new, and (most importantly) feed you.

6) They are always down for a road trip.

A best friend understands the crucial part of hitting the open road, no matter what time or what is going on. They will always find a way to get you both out of the city your in for a little best friend RnR.

7) No matter what happens, you both will always evolve...together.

Interests may change, crush's may come and go, hobbies are hit or miss, but your best friend will always stay your constant.

It takes a lot to maintain a best friend relationship, but as the years seem to fly by, it's such a comfort to know that they will always have your back. No matter what.

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1) They will always be there to take any photo of you, anytime, anyplace.

2) They are up for anything if you are.

3) You tend to dress similar after a while.

4) You tend to have fail safe activities.

5) After a while, their family becomes your family.

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7) No matter what happens, you both will always evolve...together.

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