My first year of college was not what I expected. It was more like high school than I thought. (It doesn't go away.) There were many things that were different, but going to a small college is like being in high school again. Here's what I learned from this small college in the first year.
1. Don't be afraid to get involved.
Whether it's a sorority, club connected to your major or sport, don't be afraid to do it. It may keep you so busy you feel that you don't have time for yourself, but it will be worth it in the end. You will make some of your best friends through it, and who wants to graduate knowing they didn't do anything fun?
2. Penny pinching.
Holy cow, I have never had to search the couch cushions for money this much in my life. Whether it's for food or bills, you're constantly looking for a penny to help you get the money munchers out of the way. You may have a job, but it won't seem like it at all.
3. How to survive on (maybe) three hours of sleep a night.
The eight hours of sleep you got in high school (who am I kidding, right?) is gone. You now get three hours maximum. You'll be up writing papers, studying, socializing and watching Netflix. Essentially, you'll do anything but sleep.
4. Coffee is your best friend.
You no longer have a choice in this relationship. It is now an addiction. It will keep you somewhat sane for your sleepless ride in college. It will also keep you awake during your 8 a.m. class the next day.
5. Don't procrastinate.
You're probably thinking, "Now you are a freshman and you're already procrastinating?" Yes, and I know I'm not the only one. I tell myself and my advisers all the time that I want to stop procrastinating. Do you think that happens? Are you kidding me, go read number three again.
6. You will sleep anywhere possible.
Who would have thought that you would be sleeping on random couches and floors in random buildings? Not you. I've seen it all: people sleeping under tables, on random couches and even in the cafeteria. The sky is the limit, my friend.
7. Last, but not least. How to manage my time.
Between classes, work, the sorority and meetings you would think that I would be a walking zombie. Well you would be correct, but I would not trade those experiences for anything. They taught me so much and I can't wait to learn more in the next three years.
If you are reading this, know that you are not alone. Also, if you haven't experienced your first year at college, this is what you have to look forward to. It may not sound tempting, but these are going to be the most memorable and rewarding years of your life. Soak it in.
Love,
Your first year college student.