Most times guys are completely oblivious to what's going on in the mind of women, which is sometimes a good thing. However, there are several instances where guys need a little help. So for the sanity of women everywhere, here are some things men should know.
1. Yes, all of us are just a little psychotic (or a lottle)
Women have hormones. These hormones can be the most obnoxious little buggers, but they also help regulate our systems so we don't kill anyone. So don't expect complete sanity from any healthy, successful woman. We are perfect the way we are, even if you don't really get it.
2. We look like bums more than we look like models
I am so sick of people thinking that the girls in makeup tutorials are the norm. Those girls own sweats and hair-ties too and when the cameras aren't rolling, you can bet they're using their chests as pizza roll/cheeto holders just like every other female. Don't expect me to be in a bodycon dress with perfect make-up and hair if I'm laying on a couch watching "Shrek".
3. It's the thought that counts
We don't need diamonds and hundreds of dollars in Victoria Secret and Sephora merchandise. We need to know that you care. Flowers that you stole from the old lady's garden down the street are just as good.
4. Food is the window to the heart
Food is a small, easy way to activate the pleasure centers in our brain to make us think we love you. It's basic science.
5. Tell us how beautiful we are.
We're insecure, not arrogant. It goes farther than you think.
6. Dates don't have to be expensive.
Most times, I'm just surprised someone actually asked me out. Take us out on a small picnic, or just for a drive. Do something so that we know you want to hang out with us.
7. Being annoying is how we show we care.
If we bug you, it's because we love you (or because we have a crush on you...hint, hint...).