Over the weekend, I finally got a tattoo. I had thought about it for around two years, and I finally decided on the design I wanted about 10 months ago prior to my appointment. This decision was huge because, in the end, tattoos are permanent. Though it has only been a few days since my appointment, and I’m incredibly pleased with it, I still look at my wrist confused because I went 20 years without it. I just need to get used to it, and I’m totally okay with that. To anyone thinking about getting a tattoo, here’s my advice to you:

1. Decide what you want

I know this is practically a no-brainer, but it’s probably also the most important thing I could tell you. Knowing where you want your tattoo is also a necessity. Maybe the location has specific meaning or maybe you just think it’ll look cool there. Whatever the case, know these things in advance.

2. Wait (at least) one year

And by “in advance,” I mean waaay in advance. I recommend that anyone wanting a tattoo wait around one year at minimum because things change. Once I decided on getting a tattoo, I changed my mind at least a dozen times before settling on one. And then I waited almost another full year to be sure of my decision. After ten months of not changing my design, I knew it was the one.

3. Talk to people you trust

Getting another opinion can be extremely valuable. I talked with my parents beforehand, and things they brought up were important questions and reminders before making my appointment. They might say something that you hadn’t thought of, and you’ll be glad you asked.

4. Remember: this is your decision

Even after talking to your people about the tattoo, remember that the final decision is yours alone. Not everyone will think it’s a good idea, but that’s their opinion. As long as you’ve thought it through and researched it, go for it.

5. Do your research

There are so many different tattoo parlors around. Each artist has his own style. Be sure their style fits what you want. You’re also bound to have friends with tattoos, so get their recommendations on where to get yours done. They’ll gladly give you their honest reviews. Also, visit the parlor before getting your tattoo done. I was glad I did this so that I knew what to expect before showing up the day of.

6. Prepare mentally

I prepared by hyping it up in my mind so it would be easier than what I was expecting. I knew the process, how long it would take and what I would need to do after —all before I went into my appointment (I'm a planner, if you couldn't tell). I also brought a friend along, which was simply to have someone to share the experience with.

7. Know why you’re getting a tattoo

The purpose is important because everyone and their mother will ask you about it. A new tattoo is exciting, and others want to be part of it. It doesn't need to be the most moving story on the planet, but you will be telling people about it for the rest of your life.